Right it's been a while since posting, I've just been balling around and enjoying myself. However my text game is real weak, something I'll be working on in the near future. I'm going out regularly, pulling etc so this really isn't any oneitis/scarcity bullshit but wanted advice on this situation.

So I'm in the queue on a night out (wed), talk to this hot girl and her friends for a bit we are getting on well, flirting big IOIs, we have a fair bit of report on smoking weed etc so after literally about 5-10 mins I just bam and get the number close. She texts me :' my name is HBqueue blah blah' I don't actually see her the rest of the night.

Then she texts me the next day we have a convo saying :

HBQ:'lol apologies for the retarded texting last night xx" (I'm suprised she actually bothered texting after literally a 10 min interaction so I just balls up)

Me:"blah blah some banter about last night wanna come round to mine and smoke" not expecting much.

HBQ: Yeah that would be great, are you free later tonight or is that too keen"

!!!! shit did not expect her to do that with a guy she just met, me being a complete idiot told her that I was busy that night and told her to come tomorrow. She said sure. The next day (fri) I text saying come at 9 at x address. she doesn't reply, text her again at 7
Me: Some of my mates are going to the pub tonight, do we still have plans x?
HBQ " Shit sorry, not feeling great let's do some other time x'
Me (a bit later on): This haze is sweet, your missing out ha
HBQ: Yup, you are definitely having more fun than me right now
Me: What's up?
No reply

Also, a brief fbook stalk shows she has a bf a long way away (don't know if its legit or it) so part of me thinks she was just horny then and then changed her mind.

It's now Monday, this community are so good when it comes to text game, was wondering what would be the best way to get her to come round later this week. I'm not overly invested in this since it was like a 10 min interaction but would love to lay her, she's hot and I know it would happen if she was stoned and alone at my place.

My plan for now is to text her tomorrow just simply inviting over later this week again, but then again my text game is weak. Hell, last lay I got I literally just texted the chick every week saying wanna meet up kept getting told can't do x y z and eventually when she was free went for a drink then seduced her.


P.S I don't normally use weed as a tactic for pulling girls just happens this girl is a stoner and I occasionally dabble.









MODs if references to weed are not allowed I can easily edit it out of the story, but I'm sure I've seen quite a few posts involving it.

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Sounds like you're in a tough spot. I honestly believe text game is the most difficult part of game because people don't act the same but you still want to convey a personality. Did you lose any congruency from the way you acted in your IRL interaction and your texts? You might also want to text her about something else other than weed otherwise you may come off looking like a dealer (no offense). I understand that's what you guys bonded on but that could be a DLV for some girls unless this girl is like a total hippy.

Each time you text her you want to convey some DHV. I would say leave it alone for about a week or two and then text her out of the blue. Doing something exciting for yourself and tell her about it. Then kind of tease her saying something like "I am doing [etc]" once you get her response she probably say something how surprising that is and then you qualify her, by saying something like "I bet you thought I was just some pothead,you're really quick to judge eh?"

Thanks man, I see what you mean about seeming like some sort of desperate dealer. I'll probably hit her up with something random today or tomorrow, and see if sparks are still there. Then if it doesn't work screw it and get other gals.

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haha

Well this is a funny little situation. I hit her up again, says she wants to come over tomorrow with female friend C. "you'd like her X"

X-D I have nothing to lose here this sounds like lolz, my mate has her on fbook so I'll make sure this "friend" isn't a horror show. Maybe she feels guilty cause of bf and then is hooking her friend up.

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