A. remember the 3 second rule (aka the no brain no pain; no balls no gain rule) => your overthinking this! "I want her SO BAD" => she will notice when you try to talk to her after staring her down for the past few weeks... look at your hands, feel the power, look at her silly gymoutfit, make a comment about it; go! you'll have your work cut out.
B. The answer to your question on how to do it is inside the question itself:
"She only comes in on Mondays" => how about an approach on monday then; here is some inspiration
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IQoijFax5Ic