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PostPosted: Mon Feb 11, 2013 9:54 pm 
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So here's the deal: I'm only Free on Saturdays: any other days are pretty much are up to chance of me not being able to get to the date. But maybe if I really try I'd be able to get a week day but it's not likely.

So this week I'm seeing a girl on Saturday.
I want to see another girl though, let's call her Jane.

I talked with Jane before and she said she was busy last Saturday but that could have been a lie (saying they changed her hours at work) I haven't talked to her in 10-14 days, so I think it's time I hit her up.

But the only time I'm free is next Saturday. So texting her today (assuming she can come) would be a 9 day wait. Would that be an ok timeline?

My plan: obviously because she was hesitate last time I'm gonna try and feel her out more and be more indirect. How would you's recommend me trying to find out if I can get her to hangout next Saturday. A friend recommend me saying, "What are you doing next Saturday?" I liked that one.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 11, 2013 10:13 pm 
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So here's the deal: I'm only Free on Saturdays: any other days are pretty much are up to chance of me not being able to get to the date. But maybe if I really try I'd be able to get a week day but it's not likely.

So this week I'm seeing a girl on Saturday.
I want to see another girl though, let's call her Jane.

I talked with Jane before and she said she was busy last Saturday but that could have been a lie (saying they changed her hours at work) I haven't talked to her in 10-14 days, so I think it's time I hit her up.

But the only time I'm free is next Saturday. So texting her today (assuming she can come) would be a 9 day wait. Would that be an ok timeline?

My plan: obviously because she was hesitate last time I'm gonna try and feel her out more and be more indirect. How would you's recommend me trying to find out if I can get her to hangout next Saturday. A friend recommend me saying, "What are you doing next Saturday?" I liked that one.
9 days is way to early to make a date your giving her tons of time to flake on you. I'd set it up 2-3 days before hand and send a evening text the day of just to make sure things were still on track. As far as asking her out DON'T SEEM TO NEEDY what I mean is whatever plans you have don't act like they live or die with her if she rejects go at other girls and move on


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 11, 2013 10:23 pm 
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Ok I'll try texting her sometime next week for the date.

So than here's another question: should I text her today just to talk a little bit than stop - to establish communication. Because I haven't texted her in a while and she might go cold, I'm sure you know what I mean.

Most importantly: If so, what should I say? Since she flaked maybe I shouldn't be flirty? Or maybe I should work in pre-selection. This is kind of a unique situation - so if you can break it down for me little by little. Thanks.

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