hey everyone

my ex girlfriend turned into a little slut. She dumped me to go have sex with other guys.

other than that, she was perfect. My family liked her, she was hot, beautiful and i was her 2nd with whom she had sex.

She dumped me, it was a painful break up for me. Also for her I reckon, but more for me. I am portraying myself as a real player on facebook. I warned her I would be a player if she dumped me.

Now she is doing the same, there was always a little slut in her. She was always polygamic deep down inside, but because of her principals she did not cheat on me cuz she was in a relationship. I mean her parents were hippies, and her father tells her its healthy to have a sexual youth. lol her fucking father says that can you believe that ?:P
anyway, she is having sex with a lot of people now. "experiencing life" exploring what else is there.

and to be honest, I want to marry this girl, and I don't want to marry some used slut.

I am really mad at her for dumping me to have sex with other guys. Would it help if I text her what a slut she is after almost 2 months of zero contact?

others told me to just let go and move on. But she was the only girl I had a real connection with. It sucks that it all ended this way.
I am not really sure what I should do.

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mate I'm in pretty much the same situation. I was with a girl for 7 years, I had never been with anyone else and neither had she. We went through a rough patch (our first in 7 years) and ended up taking a break from each other. Two weeks later she has sex with some guy to the point whereby now (4 months on) she's lost count.

I've made it clear to her that I don't want her in my life because she's not the girl I loved and she seems fine with that, she chose her slutty life over me.

So anyway I felt that the girl I was going to marry and spend the rest of my life with is going to be someone so special and perfect, not some used slut. You need to think whether you feel the same.

It's been so hard for me moving on but I'm realising that there are so many more perfect girls in the world who are much better suited to me. She might still seem perfect for you now but give it time and you'll see.

This is a good thing for you because now you've finally seen what sort of person she is, imagine if you'd only found out after you'd gotten married.

Good luck with that bro!

No, it would not help.

To be honest man, there are some psychological issues here. Why do you care so much that she's a slut now? So what if she enjoys life? You will enjoy life just as much and more.

The point being, you have to let go of your anger to move on. It's not easy, but it's the only way to Oz.

Your decision. Forgive and be happy, or enjoy being miserable and calling her a slut in all your waking moments.

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We just discussed this in another thread dude.

You need to get over it. You need to drop the hatred and pain induced disrespect for women.

She dumped you, yeah that sucks. But it is her life! If she doesnt wanna be together with you, you arent together. If she fucks others thats none of your business since she is not your gf. You dont own anyone.

The only thing you can do is to choose if you let it bother you or not. Are you gonna be the victim or are you gonna get on with your life?

Above all, she hasnt done anything wrong. You have no right to be angry. You can be hurt, yes, you lost someone you loved. But it is her life, not yours.

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I understand exactly how you feel about all of this but, it could honestly be worse. What if she was still WITH you fucking other guys? If all she wanted to do was fuck other guys she took the higher road about it and broke up with you.

It's going to suck and I can sympathize but the best way to go about this is to forget her. She's gotten a new taste for life and wont be the same person you've gotten to know. The best way to combat your feelings is to get back out there and meet women regardless of how hard it may be.

Also, did you verbally tell her you'd be a "player" if you two broke up? Usually this isnt exactly a DHV, it's not very subtle. Im not doubting your abilities in picking up women since I dont know you but that wasnt the best choice of words to be used as a threat like that. Alot of women will call mens bluff if your so openly talking like that.

stekehmrt:

Like other people have said...you need to move on. Delete her # from your phone, delete her from facebook/social media and most definitely don't hang out with her or her friends.

Becoming a "slut" yourself won't make her more interested in you. Let her live her life, and when she is ready OR interested again, she will reach out to you. You can then choose if its worth talking to her again; but more often then not it won't be. People grow up and change.

As you continue to meet women, you will find that relationships are just varying ranges of compatibility with someone. There is no "the one." There are hundreds of thousands of girls in the world that you are probably compatible with, and if you continue to go out, socialize, meet new people, you will find them.

I hate when people reply to these things with no resolution to a persons problem! I look it up in search asking the same question and got a bunch of tards saying move on and look at your self for physiological issues?!.. WHAT?.. First off, the guys responding to this post, are the same kind of guys banging your EX dude, Don't pay attention to them! They want you to think there is something wrong with you .. There is nothing wrong with you, wanting the woman to admit what was really wrong or why she was so selfish.. I wonder this and i would never bang my EX again, after the dong from random men she has received! The bitch made me eat shit for over 2 years, on a ten year relationship! TEN YEARS BRO! And she did it around the 7 year mark to, for about 6 months! She bitched, and moaned, constantly about what pissed her off about me, all the same as you got im sure about your habits, about your person, about the way you did things that annoyed her.. I know im hitting the nail on the head here! Allot of men eat this shit!.. And then she finds a bunch of men with the same dang things you use to do, to annoy her, and accepts it about them! And you don't feel you actually do those things or don't at all. Even though you are accused of such! And you say to your self also after you read CRAP like these guys post, and go is it me analyse your self a bit, look back and remember no it wasn't! The proof is your not banging every chick you can meet off some dating site, or you find in a bar, or pool hall or some shit! They are! They need there head checked and you digress!

But you do want an answer for closure purpose, and all she will give you is, i just fell out of love, or it's because you treated her like crap! Which is why you treated her like shit in return, but never thought anything would come to a close from it! Not your fault though man! And we could be idiots here, and say no ones fault! BUT the truth is it's HER FAULT! AND! And she constantly let her own emotions get away from her ! And like most women, over reacted to things and over analysed shit, and intensified things, she did just that! And she went behind your back wile angered and cheated on you, for the most part! Because most women out there bro don't actually love men, and most never will! They only at the end of the day, mostly only care about the dong, money and free ride, and they will fake loving you, to get it! Basically she left you to be a DIRTY SLUT! Because she is a whore, and her parents don't like any men, and they will give her a place to live till she dies to let her be a BIG HUGE SLUT! And every man you will come in to contact with, from then on, that's with her, with her perception of you, will make you want to tare there testies off there body, and shove them down there throat! And you will be able to tell when they tell her to do shit, because women follow men, and get bumped and don't do the bumping! She will ultimately never tell you what she was truly dissatisfied with, just to urk you, also and eat at you, because she is a dumb SLUT! AND It's probably slut related, and she knows it's not a good moral reason! And it's wont make her look to bright! Some will tell you your thing was to small any more, just to urk you more, and some will say it's your attitude just to piss you off! IT's NOT YOU, you answered your question SHE IS A DUMB SLUT! And your not so, you question it. Because to you, you would not just set a new chick on your cockadoodle in 2 weeks, mine did it in a week, and i think she was doing it for months wile together with her ! Some will also say she just didn't love you, anymore, not explanation either, Horse crap... She is a hooker! Take a wile before you jump on another, digest the bitch and then move on ! i know it's a sick game they play to screw and keep you from screwing but, you gotta get over the mental thing first! Nothing will work out until you do! No women till then ! Spank It! You will be much better off, tons of men are gonna come by, feed her ego tell her she's everything and dump her, make it looser and use her up! She is a Slut though, and you only think you want her cuz u are use to her! It's always someone close that robs you though, so don't look to far! Here is a couple links with stuff to look for in the future! Peace!
daman_money I answer peoples questions and tell the truth all over the web! Honesty is the best policy!


daman_money on the web we always tell the truth she was cheating like mine was bro peace!

never mind it wouldnt let me post links



there are more in google read in to it type signs of a cheater you be better off in the future read a few

Wow! that is a sad story. David X always says 'treat a slut like a lady' and 'treat a lady like a slut'

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