I'm very new to forums so bear with me here!

Firstly, Hi, and thanks for taking the time to read this.

I have been with my current girlfriend four months because I really like her...she keeps me on my toes, she is stunning and has a fun, adventurous personality that i dig. The four months have consisted of [seemingly ] spontaneous adventures all over the country and seeing each other very frequently... I lowered my guard because i feel i have to "drop game" and invest in a girl in order to fully appreciate what i have and be happy. I have had past "girlfriends" and never put any time and effort into them and never appreciated them and never been as happy...but they really liked me. I think being apathetic to outcomes of women related situations is a blessing and a curse rolled into one.

Anyways, I had an operation on my leg last week to remove some metalwork from a previous sports injury. During this week my girlfriend was on holiday. I was left recovering in my house on my own miles away from family and her. I got lonely and expected the same care previous "gamed" girls would have afforded me so readily, but i got nothing and inevitably (made worse by tramadol/ codeine) came across NEEDY! She came back from holiday and was distant, cold, disinterested in sex, texts and calls are short and infrequent...i needily/ foolishly tried to discuss the problem more than i should have...now I have the huge task of rebuilding attraction (from a pretty weird place emotionally) without being able to be my adventurous self (I'm on two crutches) and so far i have two "emergency" dates booked for the next week- the cinema (I know its a crime to do that) and a cider festival (less of a crime, i can be fun there). I live in a town, I am stuck for a strategy...any ideas/ feedback on what to do date wise and how to act through this situation hugely appreciated.

Best wishes- and i will hit you up with a progress report if anyone can help,

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