Tried to do a search on this but it is an unusual request (or so I think) so posting here.

Ok so I have a long term girlfriend and I have no intention of cheating on her.

I have however met a really hot girl while travelling abroad. After a few times meeting her I decided to up my game and started flirting. I upped the banter, started kino..she has responded positively and I have caught her staring at me a few times, touching my arms, legs, putting her arm around me (and allowing me to do the same). General teasing banter back and forth....

I will see her a few times over the next few weeks before I return home and want to maintain her attraction for me. However I am unable to escalate this into anything physical (kissing or otherwise) as she is surrounded by friends and family who know my gf.

As far as they are concerned we are just friendly maybe flirting slightly, however they see this as harmless and they won't report this back. Call me selfish or whatever, I just want to maintain her attraction for me, I guess it just feels good to know its there.

How do I keep her attracted to me, without escalating to anything physical? I have tried to get her to talk about herself, she has for now been quite closed and not keen to share, however she is slowly opening up. She is aware of my girlfriend and the fact that I will not cheat on her but this has not stopped her from flirting. I am worried she will eventually get bored...

Thanks!

keep the sexual tension between you guys

Isolate to a date or whatever you want to call it.. Just the two of you.. Then just do the normal escalation and keep it doing further this time until the sexual tension at it's peak.. Then say, how it's her fault she looks so fucken good and you can't take your hands of her.. After you have already kissed her, tell her you can't do this because your girlfriend might find out.. Then if she stops, say I don't even know how i can turn you down.. Continue with this push pull until she says she'll keep a secret.. Anyway, isolation is your go here

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