I have plenty of girls on the go but recently I have found a girl I feel fits my needs for WHAT I WANT. She is smart, cute, not a hoe, and can hold an intelligent conversation. Those qualities fit me for what I want in a ltr.
I will start out with how I met her and how I pursued:
We met on New Year's Eve through mutual friends, we both knew of each other and such but had never hung out together before this time. I was smooth from the very beginning of the night, this girl is an HB 8 and was easily the hottest at the party, she was getting hit on lots by the other games, but I was confident like I always am in my self I knew I'd be pulling her in by the end of the night. I had to deal with a few easy AMOG's which I quickly dispersed of and had a hot makeout session with her toward the end of the night (on new years eve night.) I play a semi-pro sport so I happened to be in my hometown with my friends that night but wasn't able to see her for a day 2 for a while (3 weeksish.) The time in between we texted lots (maybe too much...) and we had some nice fairly long phone conversations.
A few days ago we had our day 2, it was an afternoon hangout. I began kino from the start. We went for lunch, we went to 2 different stores, I picked up a deck of cards (to play a few magic tricks on her,) stopped at another store for some candy then went back to my house. We got in, I played the magic tricks on her, we then went downstairs played some table tennis and then we watched tv. I started heavy kino on the couch and before we knew it we were cuddling. I built up loads of sexual tension and initiated the makeout sesh. We kissed for over an hour and petted each other, I played with her tits and got her really turned on and rubbed her pussy threw her clothes etc. We are both 18, but she is a total virgin, I was the first guy she has ever made out with who hadn't been in a relationship with her, she has dated 2 guys and I am spitting good game
She has never had sex so I ran into major lmr when even trying to get my hands down her pants, I got them down on her ass but she wouldn't let me go near her vag, she had to leave soon after anyhow.
My dilemma is she got out of a relationship at least 3 months ago but I think she is still thinks about her ex a lot. I have a feeling he "broke her heart" and is still somewhat mending. I know everyone has some sort of baggage but I read that there is no such thing as a rebound relationship if you are really cool. I am confident in my self and know I'll be able to close the deal on this girl but it seems as if she is playing somewhat hard to get.
I think if I set up my day 3 and have another good hangout things will continue to look up. I am just confused as to why she is still so consumed by the ex. (I know this stuff due to the fact she posts on social media.)
~robpua48
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