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| Gameface87 | PostPosted: Wed Jan 30, 2013 2:29 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Jan 30, 2013 12:44 pm Posts: 3 | | Hey, I'm pretty new here an to pua,
So this hopefully is an easy one for you experienced guys to help me with.
I have got these two girls numbers, one I arranged a date with ASAP was easy she seemed up for it, then her friend had to go to hospital (this actually did happen, she didn't jus blow me off) an so I've worked hard an managed to re-arrange but she can only do in like a week an 1/2 an although wen I text her now I always get a reply just worried about if I should cool it for a bit til the date or jus carry on an risk running out of stuff to talk about when we actually meet, the second girl however has always replied to my texts is often slow to do so but the reponses are always positive, but she is like working 6 days a week an so is wait for her timetable is it too eager/needy if I push her an say like lets catch up in ur lunch an take her for coffee or something? Should I jus sit back an let her tell me wen she is available?
Sorry that was way longer to write that it seemed in my head, also I dunno if there is a section for text game but I couldn't see one so I posted here if someone wants to post a link or help me out that would b appreciated.
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| puaninja | PostPosted: Wed Jan 30, 2013 2:49 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Fri Aug 10, 2012 12:27 pm Posts: 2817 | | Yea, texting can be a double edged sword. It can be a great way to build rapport and get to know the girl, but it can also be a point of frustration and put the girl off. You never want to come across as over eager or needy, so there's certain rules you want to abide by when texting.
Obviously you'll be the one initiating texts. So it's all about how she responds, or if she responds at all. If she doesn't respond, or responds after many hours, or gives you worthless responses, then you need to back off a bit. There is a lot of text game theory out there, and certain things you can text a girl to engage in conversation, but if she doesn't reply back favorably then you should probably just let it go or call her instead. _________________ “Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn
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