Hi guys

I met a new girl in town. I went actually went to her house after she hinted that I should come over. I teased her for being in her pajamas and all that. We actually sat across from each other, but I did initiate kino with a high five, thumb wars and the trust test (Squeezing her hands, and then putting my hands in hers to see if she squeezes them back). She did smile and laugh a lot. She complied easily.

I did the Cube, and from there on she rambled on about herself talking about her family and her views and her personality. She did most of the talking, but asking very few questions about me. So at the end of the night I got some IOI's, did some DHV, qualified her etc with a bit of kino.

I think the biggest mistake I made, was that I went too quickly into comfort after iniating only a little bit of kino. Mostly hand touching. I would actually want this to progress into a meaningful relationship, so I'm not looking for a quick kino escalation to the bedroom, but I do want to kiss close her, so that she doesn't see me just as a friend.

Extra info: She stays only two streets away from me, and she hints that she wants to spend more time with me, (going to church, tour guide, guitar lessons etc)

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A few pointers which have served me well.

-Never ask or talk about other guys. Chances are if you are a good listener and are there to soak up her male woes, she will begin to see you as more a friendly shoulder than sexual interest. Best to assume she has other male interests, but being unfazed is the move.

-Never pour your heart out emotionally and lay your cards on the table. PUAs demonstrate their infatuation/interest via being physical and demonstrating sexual intent. Blasting her with a monolog over feelings will put her on the spot and make her uneasy if she does not feel the same way, naturally inducing the defensive LJBF.

-Always escalate physically on every encounter. It is passable to maintain physicality at a certain level, but never let kino regress. Kino is what passively outlines without words that you are not there for boy gossip and friendly banter. If she is not receptive and ushers away, it is clear the gal is not keen, and in which case is best to jettison and eject.

-Make sex a conversation topic. Be suggestive and playful, demonstrate you are a raging sexual being.

-SilverTonguedFox