I've been gaming a girl with a boyfriend for quite some time, and she's into me, but I can tell I'm not her exact type look wise. But still, I can get this sense of "Omg, why isn't my boyfriend as awesome as you?" So I was just wondering if I just slowly ease my way out of texting her, and have her text me in a couple of months like usual, until I meet up with her, if it's even worth it, if she is shallow?

Also if a shallow girl does infact get gamed, and end of with the PUA, does she start liking his looks, or is she with him strictly because of his game?


This was very interesting to me, was wondering if I could get any insight,
Thanks
-Skylet

I have been wondering the same thing. It kind of relates to a recent post of mine in which I felt a first date was very awkward due to shallowness. I'm neutral about my appearance, I don't feel as though I have anything particularly going in my favour 5/10 I guess. I assume they can. If your game is strong enough I imagine it's possible but I get the feeling it makes it a lot harder and probably not worth it, especially if you're thinking of anything long term, it could indicate they're not the nicest person and as such they wouldn't be good to be around.
'The Game' is a very good example, guys like Mystery and Style etc. didn't have much going in their favour appearance wise yet they had no trouble picking up people they'd usually consider out of their league, however I don't know how well and what methods work best on shallow girls. I'm guessing negs, they probably have a very high opinion of themselves. What has worked for other people?

True, well I believe upon becoming MPUA's, they never really go after girls who are not interested in them in the first place. Once they find out there is nothing they could do, they go to the next one. But since I'm not a MPUA, I sticked with one hb9, and have been gaming her for about 2 years through text messages, on and off, in which she never said I'm bad looking but I can tell I'm not her type. From now on, I'm not going to even waste my time with girls that show no interest in my appearance, and weasel my way from potential friend to a close. But me, I've personally never had the trouble of being put in the friend zone, because I naturally know how to avoid it, so I kind of have been keeping myself lingering in the "We aren't together because you have a boyfriend, and plus If I can't have you, then it's okay, I have plenty of girls already" which deserves an award of its own because I doubt many guys can pull that off as long as I have. But the more time you invest in gaming a girl, you still feel the urge to win her over more, so this is why I feel I have to win her otherwise the time was put to waste, because I do like her now, although every girl I pick up now I have no feelings for whats so ever. I just think if a room is full of 100 girls, and 40 of them you approach and don't even think you are good looking, and out of those 40 you can actually take 4 of them pretty far I am wondering if it's worth it or not? Or just move on to the other 60 girls that actually think you're good looking, and work your game on them?