I'm sure this has been spoken of before, but as the subject line reads.

What is the best way you have conquered "oneitis"?

I am talking to a girl now and would feel bad gaming other women. Anyone with tons of experience or recently conquer "oneitis'?

-Cheers

It depends on yourself entirely. You said you're talking to a girl(what is talking?relationship?fuckbuddy?Friendzone?) Mostly oneitis is when you can't have the girl, if thats the case its better to forget her, move on, and game other girls. If you CAN have her, then you're in relationship, right? then its all about your morales if you find it acceptable to game other girls.

And indeed, it has been asked many times, just use the search button and search for one-itis. good luck

Not dating but, seen by others as a couple. I told her I want to keep things casual because I just got out of a relationship.

She won't escalate anything sexually, but we kiss and almost had sex when we first met. (4 weeks ago)

She has A LOT of baggage and she thinks I don't know, but I know it's there because of her habits/body language. Things have become more evident and if she didn't have these habits I would date her truthfully. I like her a lot and want to fix it, but that's not my job and to be honest I just want to fuck without being somebody's pyschologist.

I just don't like to fuck with peoples emotion, but I suppose that means I'm already thinking too much about the other person..

Are you stage one, or stage two?

Common symptoms of stage 1 ONEITIS are the following:

-thinking she's so much different from any other girl you've ever met.
-thinking she is the most beautiful girl in the world.
-thinking she is to at least some degree innocent and moral.

Common symptoms of stage 2 ONEITIS are the following:

-calling her 2-3x a day, just to talk.
-staying on the phone when she calls you.
-analyzing everything she says and does.
-completely ignoring every other girl who shows interest in you.
-asking anyone and everyone for advice and to over-analyze her actions.
-thinking your different from the other 100000000 million "good guy friends" she has. Reality check Bro, YOUR NOT.

-Stop being her slave, her orbiter, her BBF!

-Stop being her emotional tampon, agreeing with every fucking thing she says just to be near her!

-Stop dropping everything in your life to meet HER needs!

Loud and clear:

*YOU*MUST*GAME*OTHER*GIRLS*OR*YOU*WILL*NOT*GET*PAST*THIS*

FREEZE Her the fuck out!

If she contacts you, ONLY show sexual interest, NOTHING else!

-You've got to stop talking to her. Don't let her know you care. Find someone else to fuck. That's the only way to deal with oneitis.

Of course unless you want to see her fuck everyone else, EXCEPT FOR YOU!

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Heywood,

This is great advice for me, thank you.
Thanks for your response, it was really helpful. I'm somewhere before stage 1. She's definitely the hottest girl I've dated (looks and how she carries herself), but I don't see her as the hottest girl in the world. We don't speak on the phone, I don't see her as innocent or moral but emotionally I do (if that makes sense). We don't agree on a lot of things and I'm certainly not afraid to disagree with her on something.

This makes sense to me though, I needed someone to slap some sense into me through the internet.

I will spend a lot less time with her and try my hardest to game other women.

I'm a dude so I should stop acting like that is something difficult.

Cheers!