..after last weekend. One thing a lot of us do not realize when we give advice is that what we offer is specific for our personalities, and who we are, and a big factor at play is the area we play our game in and what tactics may be more suitable there, than somewhere across the country or world.

Last weekend I traveled about 5 hours away, to a different state and much bigger city to do some day and night game. I don't travel much b/c extra money I have I put more in to material items. One thing I noticed was that the ratio of male to female there in the clubs was about 50/50. Where I am it's about 5 guys to 1 girl. I noticed there it was very easy to find available HB's willing to talk and most were very friendly. There, the average girl is a little cuter and about 20 pounds lighter. Here, an available HB for conversation can be a challenge to find in the club. It's amazing how much the culture changes 5 hours away. Keep in mind I've been in the game for about 12 years.

Advice I would give someone in the past would be relative to situations where I live and where I game every weekend. I have a 5 to 1 ratio to overcome so I have to be aggressive and on top of my game or girls will move on quickly. Things I have to do in my town, I wouldn't necessarily have to do in that town to succeed.

Just remember when you offer advice, someone you are advising may be in a totally different stratosphere than you, and people seeking advice need to take every bit of advice they get with a grain of salt. Not all the advice you may get is specific to your situation.

You can always listen to other people's advice.. It doesn't mean everyone is correct or giving you the right advice.. You have a brain, and you can figure out what is bs advice and what is gold.. However, there are few advice that are standard.. For example, being confident.. This advice is just simple and a fact to be good at game.. This works for everyone and no one can neglect the fact that is crucial if you want to become the best at what you do! Apart from that, you can decide whether the other advice suits your personality or not! What might work for me might not work for you! and what works for you might not work for me..Simple as that.. Don't worry that you are in a very competitive area.. You only get better this way.. Besides, it's never an excuse! If you think 5-1 is very competitive try to apply to the top jobs in the country! 1000+ to one! and you can still make it if you put your head into it. Happy sarging

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