Something I've been trying on my latest #1 FWB, is what I like to call my "Point System". I jokingly say minus X points when I learn something about her I don't like, or plus X points on things I do. For example, when she tells me she hates bacon I say "Oh, that's gonna cost ya, -17 points" or when she recognizes a bass line I'm playing I'd say "+5 for that one". Of course, I do this all in a lighthearted manner, and never tell her exactly where she measures up. Seems to be working pretty well so far, and helps keep her qualifying herself to me. I'd also like to point out she's been buying me little things, paying for me, and going out of HER way to see me.

I'd be interested to hear what you guys think of this idea. If it goes well, I might just work it into my personality and routine with every woman I date. Also, maybe some do's and don'ts on it or any feedback would be good.

I've done this before but with a system were I only gave and took away one point. And when she asks what the points are I just say, you'll see when you get to 10 points

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