So this is the story. I dated this girl for about 7 months and after a dramatic and catastrophic breakup she has started hating me. This by itself doesn't bother me in the slightest, what happened afterwards does. My ex started hanging out with this HB i had lined up before the breakup but as soon as it was over my Ex cock blocked me and now i havent been able to get any further than just a hello in passing from the HB. This is excruciatingly frustrating and kinda makes me pissed at my ex. This whole situation is starting to drain me, i know the HB is willing but the whole friendship with my ex has complicated it all. im seriously considering pulling the plug on all the effort it took to get to this point.

any suggestions?

Oh that's a tough one. Girls don't like to go with there friends ex's that's FACT! what you can do is try and get the target on your side as a friend and explain what happened with you and the ex and that it shouldn't get in the way of us 2 being friends. Is there any sexual tension between you and the target?

Well if you're 100% sure this HB wants you, then ask her privately, a hidden relationship is funny as hell :p