So, I am here. I'm more of a natural, I'm a positive guy and love helping people have a good time. I have, however, lost the middle/closing of my game. Its been a hoot getting back into the game, reading some of the posts in here and remembering when I would say that, or do that. Now I'm 30.5 years young and having the time of my life. Just finished "the game" and gonna step up MY game again. I'm gonna start with a little story. This is a story about a boy and a girl. This girl will be around a while, so I'm not in too big of a hurry, but I either need to do something, or not:


I've known her about five years, she was always fun to hang out with, and pretty cool. She was a little bit on the bigger side. Not much, but enough that I'd hang out with her, and that was about it. This was when I had my game moving pretty good. We kept the sexual tension, but never followed through. I got into a relationship, but we always stayed in touch. Now that I am out of said relationship, we met back up. She has lost the weight and now is the same girl that I just had fun hanging out with, but is hot! so, naturally we started hanging out more, and more. Slept with her a few times (no sex) gave her the Kino, but advancing past that was a dead end. Same words, "what are you doing" and some straight up "no". She always says that she loves me, and wants to marry me (usually kidding) but sometimes out of the blue drops little "oh check this out, this should be our wedding present!" She's coming over to hop in the hot tub (her idea) and I'm just so tired of getting beat down, no matter which way I approach that I'm about to give up.

oh, and I'm in the seattle area

In that case, try the Marville method. Now, this method is more of a wrecking tool than anything else, but I still love it because even if it won't get you laid, it will always give you justice.

You go up to her and . . . Surprise surprise . . . Say the Truth!

In this case, that would be: "Listen up girl. We both know you and I had a great time in our younger days. Now, if you wanna get serious, you better stop putting me off all of the time. You don't want to be touched by me? Fine, but if you do not feel the need for intimacy, stop saying all these bullshit promises like that we will get married, that you love me and that I should buy you gifts. Do you understand me? Good, because in that case I'd like to use the rest of my day to chase some hot girls."

Just keep plugging away.