I need to improve my personality and i need to improve it big time. I'm really ugly and i have realised that i need new friends and just a whole new social group. I realised that i have lost a lot of my sense of humour since i went out with my ex and that was the main thing about me lol. Apart from getting out and speaking to people is there any techniques, tips or any kind of material such as standard books to improve your personality?

Cheers

for me the book "How to Become an Alpha Male: Attract Women and Become Successful at Seduction" really has changed the way the I deal with people. you don't have to limit yourself to books there are plenty of good posts in the natural game section that deal with inner game, especially those by poetic.

I know what its like not to have any good friends around it sucks hard but good friends (and good people) are rare so just keep an eye out. I wouldn't suggest actively looking for a friend as you'll never be happy with that needy attitude.

and what the hell is with you calling yourself ugly that shit is subjective. we all got our own problems you need to learn to play with the hand you're dealt with.

"Do what you can, with what you have, where you are"-Theodore Roosevelt

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"The key is to diversify...Whatever works. It's like fishing with 7 lines in the water instead of just one. You're more likely to a catch fish that way."-PUAninja

Ugliness is hereditary, but your mom and dad got laid, so think about that when you're making friends.

Seriously though, you don't need a new personality, just a little more confidence. People never lose their sense of humor, just their sense of self-worth. Working out, getting good grades in school, getting a promotion, or achieving some other difficult goal, that's what will restore your self-confidence. This self-confidence is attractive, and that will help you achieve your goals with women.

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