I've been lurking the forums for a while without an account getting tips, but I finally have a question that I cant find already answered, or that matches my situation. I started talking to an girl I've know for about a year now. She was always interested in me, but I just now have built up the confidence to start talking and hanging out with women I find attractive.(Thanks to these forums and a very good short read called TTOB) We have been texting each other a lot lately, and I've had her over a few times usually she brings a friend just to hangout. Now I already know I have missed opportunities with her, but she still will text me non stop so it makes me feel like I haven't fucked it up yet. But last night I had just her over to watch a movie, and I had no idea if or how to escalate the situation anymore from that point.. Should I have tried to hold her? Hold her hand? Go for a Kiss? I feel so lame and frustrated sitting on my bed next to a girl that I already know is into me but I have no clue what to do.

Saying okay to coming over to "watch a movie" is girl code for. "I'll make out with you if you lead!"

Kudos for trying to better your "Game".

Many guys freeze up in this situation, so don't beat yourself up too bad. Hell we have all fuck this up in some form or another.

Having her sitting on your bed with you is a dead give away, to get things started.

Next time try this, Don't say anything! Turn to her, look into her eyes, then at her lips, back to her eyes. Reach your hand up while not breaking eye contact. Sweep a hair (real or not) off her cheek with your fingertips. If she does not flinch, or pull away, KISS HER!

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Congratz on your first post! i just got started here a couple weeks ago, been posting alot since then.

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"The key is to diversify...Whatever works. It's like fishing with 7 lines in the water instead of just one. You're more likely to a catch fish that way."-PUAninja

Whatever you do, don't kick things off by trying to hold her hand, you can do that after you bang her. Honestly, alcohol always loosen things up. Next time I'd break out some beer.

Obviously be cracking jokes the whole movie and as far as initiating flirting, you should make jokes about how she's taking up the whole bed and push her over more.