Alright im all fucked up guys, im 23 and i haven't had much trouble with females throughout my life. I've always been an athlete and very friendly with women. I was with my ex from 2007 until last year and i feel through the years we were together, i focused so much on her and our relationship that i forgot how to start off with a new chick. Now i have this approach anxiety which is killing me because this was never a problem, i find myself thinking too much about situations and i cant keep my mind off my ex in most cases. I recently started smoking marijuana at 20, and i feel that might also have an effect with the way i talk to females. What should i do? Where should i start again? i would love to just start fresh and be able to live life, Im still able to get a little ass here and there but i kno it can be much more women. I've been thinking about attenting a workshop but i wont be able to pay for it, so hopefully i can start on my own and fix my life...

Get off the weed bro. It fucks up your brain's physiology, not to mention makes you lazy and anti-social. Destroys your memory and dulls your personality. This will not help your game. Look into attending an AA meeting sometime. I would start there.

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