Hey,

So I got this incredibly cute Korean girls number the other night, I texted her a few days later but got no response.

Just to give a little back story to it, I was at the bar with some friends, she ran into me, and we started talking then dancing. She was giving me signals so I pursued it even further, held her hand, made out with her. After an hour, she said she had to go find her friend that she went to the bar with, and I got her number. I ended up going to hang out with my friends and ran into her again, she being with her friends. We were kinda drawn to each other, and she ended up spending the rest of the night with me dancing and making out. i'm pretty sure she was into me because when I kissed her she kissed back pretty hard and with tongue. She also asked me to go to the bathroom with her, but I was stopped by the bouncer at the bathroom. At one point in the night, we went outside to get fresh air and talk, I gave her my hoodie as it was freezing outside and she was in a dress. I wanted to go home with her, but she left with her friend, and her friend insisted that she take care of her. She was really drunk though and when we were dancing I had to hold her pretty tightly at times otherwise she would have fell.

So I waited 3 days to text her (got her number Friday night, texted Monday afternoon) saying "Hey, its xxxx. Did you want to hang out sometime this week?" No response, I was kinda bummed out about that. She was really cute, sexy and someone who I could date. I'm thinking I blew my chances because I waited so long to text her, and she did tell me to text her when she left. My friends said just wait 3 days before initially contacting her, which I did. I'm just not really sure whether or not I should pursue this further and try to text her again. I really thought we did hit it off but now I'm not too sure.

Thanks for the advice.

SA

First of all its not messed up. Your text did not grab her or make her want to respond. You need to say some thing like "Hey I saw a chipmunk today and It reminded me of you. Are you still collecting nuts?" Then take if from there. Also you text her when you want to text her. There is no 3 day rule. You friends are wack for saying there's a magic number. I would of texted her that night and made it dirty but that's just me. Wose case serino say that your girl friend needs back that hoody that you let her borrow and see what kind of jolt you get from her.

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I've already texted her, so how long should I wait before I try sending her another text (or even call)? And yeah my gut feeling was telling me to call her the next day, i don't know why i listened to my friends!

Drunk interactions are never worth putting all your money on the next time you plan to contact her. The problem is, its not you personally the reason they do not text back, its because women get easily embarrassed by their actions when they get drunk and often think its for the wrong reasons if they respond after a messy night out.

The best thing you can do when you meet a girl who is drunk but you really are attracted too and want to see again is literally spend the night with her and see it through till the end. This way you can build a stronger connection with and an experience she will remember more rather than just a kiss on the dance floor. Personally? I dont follow up on drunk girls because I know that alcohol distorts perceptions no matter how much of a catch I am for her.

She didn't text you back because your first text to her should've been more like "Hey(:"

Not "would you still like to meet"

Next text and make it your last, if she doesn't reply.

1. Hey(:
2. Can't find my hoodie, pretty sure you stole it?
3. Helllllllooo, dancing queen? >:)

Anything like that