Hey guys so here's a situation, I met this girl and before everything was good she was giving me full attention and she used to text me all the time and told me she missed me all the time. We had sex and everything was good. She's on her break from school now so she's back home, she's been busy working and everything. But I know she talks to other guys and she told me they are just friends noting more. She even told me that she liked me, but i told her that im not ready for relationship right now, but that doesnt mean i wanna fuck around with other girls. So she was fine with that and everything was good. But lately she's hasnt been texting much and kind of ignoring me. I figured maybe if i tell her I was date her might solve this prob, which i did. And she said she's think about it. But after that she's been ignoring and doesnt talk much even on text. I asked her if there is another guy let me know so i dont waste my time. She said there isnt any other guy, she said she's just been busy. So I have feeling that she's talking to other guys and maybe keeping me as like backup option? what do you guys think? I need help cause now i cant stop thinking about her. I have not texted her in last two days neither has she. So I need help.

I would say she has other guys for backup. Wait and see or tell her an emotional story.

or should i play her games on her? ignore her not initiate text and when she does, should i tell her I am busy?

Send her a ping (humorous statement). Make her smile. If she replies positively, just follow a few guidelines with regards to texting.

1. Don't send paragraphs. Keep it light and simple.
2. You don't have to reply to every message she sends.
3. Don't text her continuously. Show her that you have other interests.
4. When she shows interest (quick replies, happy, upbeat, laughing, flirting etc), set up to meet.

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I agree texting can ruin you!! I just messed up large with a girl I was really into by over texting, and texting way to much info! I should have known better....I'v been at this a while but for some reason all logic went out the window haha I still have lots of ladies around me but this girl was awesome! great chemistry, got a make out, she was super into me in person....and I fucked it up with texting!

Short text! all conversation should be done in person! learn from my mistake!