So I met a girl and everything was going pretty well. I tried to set something up but she got back to me and said it was her freinds B-day and that she would get back to me with her schedule. I said "cool no worries". She never got back to me. And I beleive she got spooked because gettting together was made into this big thing. It seemed that after she canceled and I still played it off like it was no big deal (and it really was no big deal) that there was some attraction lost. I decided to freeze her out for a few days I texted her a joke on sunday and she responded back immediatly with "Lmao!!! I love that!! Haha I just laughed so hard!". That was the last text. Some one on the site recommended that I freeze her out for a day or two so I did. Also that I don't try "to set something up" and just invite her along sometime. Thats what I want to do. I may not be available to do so because I am having a minor surgery on fri. Which will put me out of commish for at least a week or two. And possibly not able to have sex for a month. We have not had sex but had her in my bed making out.

My question is what should I do? I am afraid that if I freeze her out for weeks it will go dead. Is it ok to freeze her out this long or should I call her from time to time or text? And if so what should the texts or calls entail and when should I do them?

You could try to meet her before your surgery, if not than do whatever you feel like, if you truly want to talk to her than give her a call, if not just wait and message her after a few weeks to "get together" it should do the trick.

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