| In order to be successful with women you need 3 things: inner game, outter game and lifestyle.
I would also add looks, im not refering to how tall you are or how pretty is your face, im refering to how fit you are, what clothes are you wearing, your hygiene, facial hair, haircut, etc.
inner game: i dont know too much books about this subject, but my advice is for you to work on your belief system. Make a list of beliefs about yourself that are unreal for now but eventually will be real. Some examples: im the life of da party, i can have every woman i want, they are dying for my atention, etc. Make a big list and read it out loud twice a day.
outter game: the stylelife 30 day challenge, and then read magic bullets for more theorical understanding of the game and routines manual
lyfestyle: stop playing so much videogames and get new hobbies that enrich your life. Suggestions: martial arts, tennis, guitar, reading, chess, etc. Personally i practice kung fu, skate, read and play chess. Besides the fact that this are some pretty fun hobbies, they have positive side affects for my life. Kung fu gives me a nice body, confidence, and the frame that i could protect her, also gives me self discipline. Skate (or any extreme sport) makes you crazier in the sense that fear or anxiety almost doesnt affect your actions at all. Reading makes you more interesting and gives you topics you teach and talk about. Chess literally makes you smarter.
looks: get fit (ideally practising some cool sports), ask the hottest women you know for advice on your facil hair, haircut, shoes, clothes, watch, etc etc etc, shower daily, get a couple nice parfumes, take care of your teeth, etc.
There you go for now.
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