I am not underestimating the importance and power of PUA skills in helping to build rapport and get a woman into bed/date etc.. but when it comes to 'the one'.. should it really come into play?..

I have heard many people (non pua's) talk about when they just met 'the one' and it all fell into place. I really want to meet someone and settle down and part of me wanders if for that type of girl (and not some HB to shag).. if it is better just to not think about it and go with the flow..Surely if the girl was right, it would just feel good etc..

Just asking the question..

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Let's say you pass a girl on the street who you find absolutely gorgeous. Maybe she is "the one."

What are you going to do? Are you confident that you can approach her and establish a connection to build an intimate relationship with her?

In all likelihood, without a lot of previous experience with picking up girls who weren't "the one," you wouldn't have enough confidence to pick up a girl who is "the one."

Some people live in a delusion Disney-inspired dream world and mistakenly believe that true love will be given to them by destiny. The truth is, though, that you must grab life by the horns and TAKE what you want in order to create your own destiny.

Yeah, every now and then you'll notice that some guys "get lucky" and end up with partners that are just perfect for them without much effort, like some of your friends. Personally, though, I'd rather not leave such a thing to chance.

"In order to get the one girl, you must get ALL the girls." - jlaix

"The One" doesn't exist. You're never going to find that special person who completes you. You can find someone worthy of your love and who loves you, but all that Hollywood poetic shit just teaches us to externalise a process which should be internal. You won't find what's missing in another person.

Also, in my experience, whenever you think "Omg I don't need to play games with this girl!" is usually right before things blow up and your heart gets broken.

Then I am rather cynical.