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PostPosted: Mon Dec 31, 2012 7:27 am 
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Ive been working with girl for about 8 months now. during this time, we've developed a really good connection. We've been flirting since day one, holding hands while walking, hugging on the reg. I have made it very apparent that I like her but never told her. I really want to tell this girl how I feel but I am afraid i might have fallen in the friend zone and she might not be interested in me anymore. Is there a way of finding out? How can I tell her how I feel about her?


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 31, 2012 7:48 am 
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don't tell her you like her. even if she did like you she'd probably deny it. girls are very protective like this.

get her out on a date pronto. just you and her. even if its just a coffee. then escalate.

set the tone. take her hand, stroke it gently with your thumb and see if she strokes back. then go for the kiss. there's no way she can deny it then.

its the only way to tell. actions speak louder than words.


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 31, 2012 12:35 pm 
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The fact that you asked this question tells me you don't know the first thing about women. Trust me, the woman will realize that you like her once you are bottomed out in her pussy. You don't need to tell her that you like her beforehand. That's purely an AFC move. If anything, you tell her that you don't really like her, or that you aren't all that interested. Maybe not tell her outright, but give her that impression.

Pua's speak with body language and kino (touching). That's how we convey to women that we like them. AFC's think its all about talking, and telling them how we "feel", but that's all bullshit. If you reallly wanna' tell her how you feel about her, then seduce her. Tell her with your dick.

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 31, 2012 5:06 pm 
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8 months is a looong time! You planed the seed at the start and now it's rotten :) This might end ugly for you if you told her.. Most probably will really.. After work take her out for drinks or whatever.. Somewhere you can escalate.. Afternoon coffees don't work out well for me but you can try that too.. Look at her body language and tone! It's really easy once you look for those things.. If you see those things, build a bit of sexual tension! they fucken love that! and then go for the kiss SAME NIGHT! If you give her time to think about it for next day or so, she will back down and think how stupid that is..

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 31, 2012 10:11 pm 
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You can tell a girl you like her this is not a problem only IF* you have built enough attraction, and she is giving you go ahead...If your intention is do "date her" and see where things go then its only natural to tell her and lead but I would tend to agree in most cases that you should f close first. Most relationships start as f buddies and then turn into more.

Proper way to let a girl know you like her:

(Near the end of a date, she showing you IOI's)
I really like hanging out with you, We have fun! I'd like to keep hanging out and see where things lead

Wrong way:

(Before attraction or really at any point)
I really like you! I want to be exclusive

If a relationship is what you want then this is how it typically goes

Day 1 - get number (might get a make out) (text back and forth for a few days)
day 2 - first date (kiss her/ build attraction)
day 3 - 2nd date, have fun and get to know each other
day 3 to 6 - sleep together

By this point you will both know if your going to take it to the next level or not...some women you will f close right away just depends the girl and in most cases with most guys they are not going to get an f close on day 1.

If you wait to long and don't lead she will put you in the friend zone. If a girl is heated and ready you better man up and make your move because this window is small and you might not get a second chance!

What the difference between a boyfriend and a friend? the boyfriend is fuc%ing the girl lol


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Ive been working with girl for about 8 months now. during this time, we've developed a really good connection. We've been flirting since day one, holding hands while walking, hugging on the reg. I have made it very apparent that I like her but never told her. I really want to tell this girl how I feel but I am afraid i might have fallen in the friend zone and she might not be interested in me anymore. Is there a way of finding out? How can I tell her how I feel about her?
You don't tell her how you really feel about her. You let your ACTIONS convey how you feel about her. Women listen to men's actions more than their words. Invite her out for a cup of coffee, isolate her, and make a move. It's that simple.

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