So i met these three 18 to 19 year old girls in a pub last week. they are good friends and they are all very good looking. i have added two of them on facebook. one didn't accept my friend request, but still reply to my post on her friend's wall. (i was teasing her for giving me an obviously fake email address) the three of them were leaving loads of comments on my post (50 something comments). i try to inbox one of the two i added. she came up with some bullshit like i am gonna switch to phone and i dun do facebook chat on phone. i replied she's high maintenance. and she didn't get back to me so far.

here comes the question. shud i inbox the remaining one? it's a bit tricky they are all close friends.

Probably not... Don't go for any of them. Just talk to them like a normal person would.

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What did you inbox her? If you were 'gaming' her and making it quite sexual and showing intent, I wouldn't bother messaging her friend. It tends to bite you on the arse when you end up gaming two friends individually (if it's in a set and you just tease one before moving on to the other it's not so bad) - like you say, they're friends and when (not if) they discuss that you've been messaging both of them they'll just think you're a player and a bit of a creep. Especially as it's over facebook.

i didn't even have the chance to start a proper conversation,

me: hey

HB2: i am on my phone and i dun like facebook chat so sorry haha

me: ahhaaa, you are so high maintenance

i posted a message on HB2's wall before i tried to inbox her. all three of the girls were fighting for my attention and left loads of comments.

HB3: why am i not funny

me: ha you are actually very cute

HB2: such a shame me and HB1 are not cute at all

me: HB3 is cute, HB2 is adorable and HB1 is a funny girl

Facebook game is lammmmme. Instantly I just do

Me: Facebook chat is lame, phone number?
Her: Why do want it <or whatever.
Me: i like to be more personal

haha i tried to get their phone no. in the pub. but they decided to add me on fb instead. okay, i will go for her no. again. hope i am not going to be rejected this time

Yeah, in that case, you should be fine talking to the other girl. I'd go in quite quickly for the number. You've built a bit of a connection already with the wall posts. However, be careful just asking for the number straight out.

You'd be better to talk (even a little bit) and then say something like BITmixit says - I'm not on facebook a lot and don't use chat on my phone much, what's your phone number?"