On the forth amazing date with a girl I met at university I attempted the kiss. And got rejected.

Her explanation (via text later that night) was that she's recently began seeing someone else. (Shes a 8/9).


I've been practising Game for many years now and have high levels of success, so much so that this rejection feels entirly new to me. Experienced PUA's... How do I demonstrate im better than the mysterious 'other' guy.


Much love, D

ps, I replied to her text casually and positively basically saying 'no sweat, happy holidays'.

Ahh...a seasoned pua is now remembering what the sting of rejection is like. Sounds like you're a bit jealous about the "mysterious other guy" too.

You have to understand that she is not looking for you to prove you are better than the other guy. She's already made her decision. All you can do now is not call her for a long time and see if she ever calls you again. It's doubtful she will. Then in a month or two you can text her just to "see how she's been" and check up on her relationship status with Mr. Mysterious. If you try to talk your way back into her favor or compare yourself to this other guy right now it will just make you look bad and fuck up any chances you might've had with this girl in the future.

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brilliant response puaninja! Yes I became too complacent and didnt even figure I'd get rejected. Sobering experience!

I have maintained zero communication following my initial text reply.

TBH a part of me was hoping you PUA's would have developed a magical response to my predicament... Your advice is valued all the same

wait, so a guy who's been "practising Game for many years now and have high levels of success" went on 4 "amazing" dates with the same girl without trying for a kiss? that doesnt make a lot of sense to me. something isnt passing the smell test here...

shes probably with the new guy because he actually tried to fuck her.

Hi all,

Thanks for your reply and I understand your skepticism. Have a little respect, granted I could have tried to kiss on any of the previous dates, I accept my failing there. I would not be interested in her if I thought she'd be an easy 'fuck'. I prefer the challenge of a good woman.

Lets keep our community constructive and supportive

D

Ok, at least you admitted that you should've moved in faster.

That's the problem with moving too slow, you get passed by anyone and everyone who moves faster than you. If she's dating you and another guy at the same time, and he kisses her after date 2 and you don't, then now she feels a stronger connection with him and gravitates towards him.

The odds are that her relationship will fail with him whereas the one she had with you at least left off on a positive note. That's why if you leave it as is and just wait it out, you might get lucky and start up dating her again in the future.

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puaninja you are a credit to us all!!


She has fb messaged me about an hour ago asking how I'm doing and how was my xmas...

Green light to reply...

And just to keep you on the right track here, you can continue to talk to her if she's initiating it, but don't mention the other guy whatsoever. Pretend like she never mentioned another guy and all she did was tell you that she just wants to be friends. You can still be cool with her and friendly, but be somewhat detached unless she starts giving you ioi's that she is interested in continuing on with a romantic relationship with you.

It may have just been a shit test all along, I'm not sure. Or she might be following up with you just to make sure you are not harboring ill will towards her so she can have peace of mind that it's a clean break before moving on to the new guy. You'll need to feel her out and find out what's really going through her mind. Just make sure to maintain a cool head and a non-jealous frame.

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