There's a girl a met in march. We kissed on a ski trip, no biggie.

Last summer I ended an open relationship with a girl. Since then her friends have been talking to me, seeing if I would be interested in her. I met her again while i was working behind a bar last summer, we exchanged numbers but she told me she'd be abroad a lot.

So now she's back in town for the holidays and on a christmas party same thing happens: four different people, unrelated to each other start hearing me out about her. I reckon she's been talking about me with her/my friends a lot ...

So i decide to give in and ask her out, but she seems to be shying out. (made two propositions but her agenda isnicely filled up, no real suggestions from her side ).

How would you handle this? From what I hear she's been with only one guy in her life (she's 24), the kissing thing in march may have been a big deal for her. my spider sense tells me im good and she's afraid of my rep or afraid to commit.

aks her out one night and have some intense conversations with her.

then you will be a serious person in her mind, and if she wants a serious person, you're good to go. she probably doesnt want to be a one night stand.

just go with your spider sense. and bang her hard like there is no tomorrow.

dont be shocked when she flakes out - always the case with those 'no commitment' girls.