Hello gentlemen,

Just curious, do you believe people can have a fear of success? Because this is what I think I am feeling.

I've been on a bit of a rough streak for about a year now, with no success. I seem to strike out with girls I get close to. I don't have trouble getting girls attracted to me, it just seems that I can't 'pull the trigger' or properly close them. I can get them to bed, but then it's downhill from there.

The last girl I got 'sexual' with was a friend of mine. We were never 'friend zone' level, just acquaintances which grew quite sexual. However I just couldn't close. I just wrapped my arms around her and went to sleep.

Any thoughts?

Cheers!

I doubt it's a fear of success. I've gotten girls in bed several times and just didn't bother sleeping with them because I just decided last minute I wasn't attracted to them. Probably because they were too easy.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

It's what happens when the Catstring Theory starts working TOO well. That cat will sit there all day and play with the dangling string. But the moment you toss it on the ground it will sniff it one time and walk away.

You do all that work to game the girl, then you get her in bed and you know it's all over once you stick your weener in her. No challenge at that point. Just a piece of string lying on your mattress.

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