Hi all, this is my first post. This is an issue I have been trying to figure out for the past year and half and I think I finally found the perfect forum to ask the question. It is a nice problem to have for most guys, but this is something that is in the back of my mind.

I met this HB, a year and half ago. She is a 8.5, early thirty. She was infatuated with me from the start. Our interaction can be resumed as follows: about once a week, when I feel horny, I call her, asking her to come see me. About an hour later, she would enter my office, barely saying any hello, drop down to her knee and starts to blow me. About 10 minutes later, when all is finished, she would leave immediately, barely saying goodbye.

Most guys would be glad to have this but here is my issue: she never kissed me, never let me put my hands in her pants (although she let me touch her outside of her underwear a few times). She barely lets me touch her breasts (a nice natural 34C btw). Needless to say, we never had intercourse. She did say that if I tell her I love her (I am too macho to say these things, beside I don’t like to lie about that either), and spend the whole night with her, she would go all the way. I am married, and can’t really spend the whole night out. She knows I am attached. She also claims she is a virgin, but I doubt it, although I don’t think she had many before.

It is not like she loves to bj that much, even though she is an expert at this (after intensive tutoring by me ). That is why she wants me to come quickly after 10 minutes. I feel a bit bad exploiting her that way but she always refuses to out for a drink or dinner or clubbing, saying that it is a waste of time

My question is: would any of you veterans out there encountered this situation before, and how can get her to sleep with me. Thank you.

dude you dont have any imagination. tell your family you go to a conference about psychology, literature, mechanical engineering, whatever. Then book a romantic weekend to a historic city with hotel. This is what my gf did with her husband while I met with her.

Thanks Marville. Lies about 'I love you' and going away for a few days on training is not that hard.

The main issue is that I don't want her to fall for me, since I know she will fall very hard, and I don't want a repeat of the movie Fatal Attraction!

The other thing I try to understand is her psychology, which does not make any sense.

Then you should never have embarked on this adventure in the first place, and stopped her the moment she wriggled around with your zippers, buddy! Either you turn back before it is too late or you go all the way forward and let the chips fall as they may.

Whats her number?

There's a chance she's been the girl on the outside before. Shes used to being the woman who comes in for sex, and then exits out the back door.

If you like the bjs take them. If you like her, try a new routine.

Maybes shes smart not saying much in the office.

She is about an 8.5. She can really get any guy she wants.
My office is private, she can stay as long as she likes.
BJ is great, but i really want more.