Hey guys,

Through my many years of trial and error I've come to the conclusion that there's two factors which separate the guys that get laid (the good guys and jerks) vs. the guys that don’t (the nice guys).

What are they?

TOUCHING
Touching a woman while interacting with her is very, very, very important. Have you heard of the sales slogan...

A.B.C = always be closing

When it comes to seducing women...

A.B.T = always be touching

A man’s touch turns a woman on and makes her horny. Now, I’m not talking about groping her tits or ass but simple touches on her arm, neck and face. I’ve found that touches on her back (across her bra strap), lightly brushing her hair out of her face or legs really rev up the sexual tension.

Countless times women have told me that it was me touching her that lead to her being horny and eventually having sex with me.

Here’s where nice guys miss the boat, they’re too nice. They feel touching her will offend her or make them come across looking like a pervert. I do understand this kind of thinking, I use to act like a nice guy. But this kind of belief will not get you laid.

Women are emotional beings and touching them will create the emotions of sex, love and romance in them.

BE PLAYFUL & TEASE HER
For guys, being playful and teasing a girl you liked started way back in public school. I’m not quite sure how this mating ritual came about but nearly all women will feel physical attraction to men who tease them, playfully. Even the most alpha, business-type, women will turn into little school girls when teased by a guy they find interesting or attractive.
As men, we’re mostly logical, practical and straight forward. Like dogs. The average guy will usually see a girl he likes and then confess his feelings to her.

“Hey Susan, I just want to say that I like you a lot.”

Most women who hear this will feel:

- the guy is weak
- not masculine
- he’s sweet but just a friend
- sexually unattractive
- not a potential lover/boyfriend = friends zone

But when you (don’t verbalize your feelings) simply be playful and tease a woman you’re with she’ll feel:

- horny, desired

- you like her...but she’s not sure (which creates mystery)

- sexually attracted to you

- sexual tension (which must be release through kissing, having sex)

- like a little girl

- feminine

- appreciated (women love attention...maybe more than sex)

Once a woman says she loves you, then you can begin to (use words) express your feelings to her. Until then, being playful and teasing is the best way towards a woman’s heart and other body parts.

- Drummer.boy

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There are many more things on this topic, but being sexual, being cocky (just knowing she's attracted and there's sexual tension between the two of you), being playful, being very touchy feely because that's just who you are, being unapologetic about your intentions and desires and words and actions, saying and doing what YOU want to do, leading the whole time, not caring what she says (but still listening and conversing), but staying in your reality, you choosing what to talk about, what to do, and having fun even if she's not (it' her loss), and just knowing what you want and going for it and escalating without apologies, all these things make you a sexual candidate automatically, and you know it.

Escalate escalate escalate without apologies. Connect, get to know her, increase the vibe, the sexual vibe. Make it easy for you two to click and to have sex. You are to blame for everything, you are responsible for everything. And be congruent in whatever you say and do and to who you are right now and never change for her. Your world, your reality, be who YOU are not what you think she wants you to be. Just put yourself on the platter and express that. BAM.

I had a chick friend zone me hard last night and managed to get out of it by remaining sexual and talking to her about her feelings and asking what I could do to convince her to change her mind. That's not necessarily going to work with every chick, but the important thing is to be true to what you really want out of the situation rather than to try to use some kind of sneaky underhandedness. That way you can be friends and get what you want.