Okay there is this girl i know from university, we met at a club everyone was going at, and we made out etc, got taxi back to her place, and i went back home, no problem there.

We had a text conversation a few days ago, and i managed to demonstrate high value but there wasn't enough tension, it was too nice, i realised i should have escelated the attraction, but got stuck in comfort.
How is the best way to regain tension and attraction. One problem i find with me trying the PUA material out, is that i get stuck on comfort and i end up losing the attraction by playing it cool and using too many negs or push and pulls.
Any advice would be helpful and this is a problem i find recurring and preventing me from getting laid as much as i do.
Cheers