Hi guys!
So, I'm living in Japan and trying to enjoy the benefits - a whole bunch of hot asian chicks.
I've been reading up on PUA for a couple of weeks now, and I'm getting better at approaching. However, I really, REALLY fuck up when it comes to keeping things casual.
I've met two girls since I started.
Girl 1: Met at a festival, number closed her. One date, tried my best at kinoing, no k-close. All of a sudden she asked me out for a date to a zoo and started messaging me about how much she loved me and wtf!!! I haven't even kissed the girl. (And that might actually be the problem!)
Girl 2: Now this is the big problem. This girl is without a doubt a perfect 10. She's 20 and SMOKING hot. I got a high-5 from a random guy after I number-closed her on campus. During the first date I tried my best at kinoing, but I still struggle here, so no action during the first date. Went out once more, suddenly she started talking about her family. I found out that she was the only daughter of a REALLY powerful and rich man here in Kyoto. And he wanted to see me. The next day. I'm like WTF!?!?!? I'm out!!!!!!! I'm not going to meet the father (who will kill me on sight) of this chick. She started crying. Yeah, awkward.

How can I have fun with girls without them starting to cling on to me?
I know, I can find some STD-slut from a club / get a prostitute etc, but I'm talking about normal ladies you find outside. How can I approach, get action and get out? My motivation is like zero after the last two chicks I've "been" with. I haven't gotten any action, just a whole lot of drama (in japanese, btw, fml!).

Thank you guys very much for your help.
I really want to get better at this, but right now I'm pretty lost. I'm guessing I'm struggling with my game + some cultural differences, but I'm hoping that I can have some fun if I just get better at playing!

Dinoz

You are such a pathetic pussy man, you are in fact such a pussy that you dont belong in this forum.

this girl who was like "i love you" well she is probably this hysterical type who writes this shit yet responds totally fussy and frigid the moment you try to cuddle her. chicks like that dont know what they say. still you failed horribly at forging the iron when it was hot, you failed despicably even at the attempt to do so.

Then, you loathsome parasite, should have obviously claimed this beautiful girl you found on your path and make your way up their powerful family. Imagine if I, with all my contacts of the academics and parliament, would gain access to that family... A beastly power would be born! And you reprehensible worm just spat this opportunity in the face!!

^Except when your Japanese daughter is dating a non-Japanese man.

You just gotta tell them how you feel. Be straight up. You barely know these girls so it shouldn't bother you too much in how they react to what you say. You should, however, have self-respect to be honest with these girls.

1st girl something in regards to slowing down but wanting to get to know her and spend time with her.
2nd girl something in regards to saying that meeting her family would be a big step for you (cultural differences/how you were raised), and once again you just want to get to know her and spend time with her.

Just explicitly keep it casual.

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Pickwick, thank you very much for your help.
I'll tell them straight up and be honest about this stuff.

However, I'm wondering if I could get some tips / recommended reading on how to set the rules straight right off the bat with new girls in the future? I've gotten a bit better at approaching / attraction, but I think I screw up and turn into the "nice-guy / boyfriend-material" kind of guy way too soon.
How can I signal / tell girls that all I want is to have some fun and no LTR, without coming off as a jerk?

Thank you

I've been reading on your Japanese sarging since day 1. Good job on the progress.

To answer your question about no LTR, whatever you say, don't flat out say you're looking for fun, or don't flat out say you're not looking for a LTR.

One thing you can do is bullshit about a past relationship. In this said relationship, you were very dedicated but the bitch did X and Y and broke your heart, and since then you've been "recovering" and that eventually you'll want a relationship again but for now you're exploring your options. This will convey that you're deep down a good guy but not necessarily ready to be committed.

Or if you prefer being honest, just tell them you're discovering life and you'll take whatever comes at you. Keep them guessing... Again, don't flat out say what you're looking for, or what you're not looking for.

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