Hey what's up

So here's my problem. Been chatting to this girl I met online for a few days now. Thing is she lives quite some distance away and we haven't had a date yet (she only lives in my city for Uni). I suggested meeting up which she was keen to do so but sadly she's gone home for the Christmas holidays now and won't be back for 4 weeks.

I always make the mistake of chatting to girls for too long before meeting up and more often than not our interactions fizzle out before we get the chance to hang out or it leads me to the friend zone. Does anyone have any tips on how I can avoid that happening here. Should I get her number and take it offline and send a text/call maybe once a week or so to keep in touch? That's all I can think of at the moment.

thanks for any advice

Anyone?

Look your best chances are that you don't be needy and that you continue to live your life without her on your mind the whole time.

Stay in touch with her. See if you can become "pen pals", I did this with a girl who lived in scotland and came back to Vienna. We wrote almost every day, but I gamed her, meaning I teased her, cocky funny, played some games, and I noticed the attraction. Basically do as you would in real life, calibrate to her response time and just be fun! The key is to make her WANT to get on her computer or her phone to talk to you. Become her escapism. Then when she comes over, bang, you make the move.

If I were you, and was trying to just get it in, I wouldn't initiate contact up until she comes back. I have my own life to live and my own things to deal with. You don't know her that well so even if you hit her up you wouldn't have much to talk about. If you would have hung out before, and known her fairly well, then yeah, some contact could be affordable. Once again, you don't want to be that guy that just hits her up to ask her how she is doing. At least not right now.

I would hit her up once and say something in regards to me wanting to see her when she come back. Then I wouldn't initiate contact and just do my thing. If she texts me after awhile, cool. If not, I'd call her up when she's back and ask her out.

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