I'd like to think I'm good at text game...I had some success up utill now.

I got chatting to this HB off a dating website...added her on facebook and we carried on the chatting from there. She seems interested. She say's she doesn't use facebook much (which is true), so I give her my number. Later on that day...I get a text from her saying (here's my number etc) ...I wait a short while to text back to not to appear eager.

We have some short conversations via text but it seems as if she's not putting in the effort on her part. I get 3 word replies or she doesn't ask me a question or doesn't seem to want to give some input. I text her back the next day with a joke and she doesn't get it. I'd hold the reply until later on then I try to build some rapport and suggest a meeting up. She doesn't reply to that text. I texted her yesterday about her day...I get a reply then I talk about something else....no reply to that text.

It's just as if I'm talking to a robot to be honest! I make sure I don't reply straight away, I don't do very long texts, I'm careful not to sound boring and I don't send another text if she doesn't reply that day. It's just frustrating that I'm having to always initiate a conversation. I have no idea how to make her seem eager or at least more interested.


Before anyone says...I can't do phone calls as I have a hearing problem. So I rely on text/chat game.

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First off one of your problems is assuming that "text game" whatever...is always going to work on EVERYONE. You think just because she isnt responding the way you want that you assume if you tweak what your doing she will respond positively. Well I'd like to think of this as she has nothing invested in you. Like if one of her friends texted her she be all over it. They have history together and an emotional connection.

When you first meet someone they dont give a shit about you for the most part, but over time they start to get more and more emotionally connected. See what i'm saying. So I'm going to make an assumption that you too have very little emotional connection obviously since you just met, but at the same time her lack of commitment to the conversation shows she really doesnt care to create an emotional connection/meet you at the present time.

I'd just not text her, cut your losses and perhaps she texts you one day. But dont forget that when she texts you say she says Hey. Dont respond back hey! hows it going?.....I'd respond back Hey....and if she sends nothing after that then who gives a shit. And if she sends What you up to? Just be like. Watching a movie with some friends...She will probably say what movie or something..

Basically make her work for the conversation because she is doing that to you right now...

That make any sense?

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That's certainly true and I can understand where you're coming from. I'm just rather frustrated that she doesn't seem to be showing an commitment to the conversation or at least showing a bit of interest.

I texted her a bit earlier on saying I saw her Twin (!) in town earlier and negged her slightly on to try and reinitate communication. No reply as of yet. If there's no reply to that...I'll just forget about her.

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As OP says, she has little or no interest or investment.

Move to NEXT, she already has!

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Not sure I entirely agree here folks. I've had text conversations with girls who reply in a similar fashion; one or two word answers. Often they'll put things like "yeah haha *smiley face*" but never try to push the conversation on themselves. However, that doesn't mean they're straight away not interested. I had one girl who did this, but she would reply instantly all the time and keep it going for hours even though she never really put much into the texts herself; we met up a few days later and I fucked her.

Moral of the story - how people text isn't always related to how they'll be in person. Text her, try to set up a date, see what she's like and go from there. Remember as well that girls aren't all completely clueless about games and the like. They might not be texting back with much content in the texts for the same reasons that we don't always text straight away - they don't want to look overly keen/they want to keep you on your toes/they want to play you at your own game!

I've got to say now I very rarely use text game much at all. I get in and set up a date really early, like 1st or 2nd text. Then if she is the type who doesn't respond much on texts, then I'll see what she's like in person. But if she wants to carry on the texting off her own bat and is putting some reciprocative effort in, then I will continue to text her and turn it flirty (knowing I've already got the date set up, so she's interested, so I can probably get away with being more explicitly flirty than I normally might be).

But if this girl is the same when/if you get a date sorted, then it's your decision - do you just want to fuck her? If so, it doesn't really matter that she's boring. But if you want a relationship, then personally I've given up trying to get a personality out of someone. If they're shy or boring, I just can't be bothered any more - there are plenty of other girls who are more fun!