so, what is the appropriate response when some guy is acting inappropriately.

The girl and i have been seeing each other for about 2 years now and lately things havent been great lately. We live about 100 miles apart and see each other 1-2 times a week. Lately the spark has been off ...

then there is this guy who apparantly was in to her sister about a year ago. when she hooked up with another guy he decide to change targets i guess. At first he was just a friend, but lately he's been going out with my girlfriend alone about as much as me.

Ive asked her to introduce him to me once but she has refused it ("You're not gonna like each other" was her response. No shit ... )

And apparantly he has been trying to gain even more ground sending her inappropriate messages and stuff on facebook.

It annoys me to no end and i hate her beeing this disrespectful, but I dont know how she really feels about it. I dont want to be the carebear either so i act as if i dont know. It bothers me though.

I think you already know what you need to do. You need to be firm and tell her she needs to make up her mind about what she wants. You need to find out whether your relationship with her is over or not.

She is treating you like her option, never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option. React to her moves, flip the script. Hang out with other girls! Post a picture on facebook of a couple hot girls hanging off you, even if it's your sister and cousin, LOL!

It's a big shit test! She wants a challenge. She wants a guy she can not completely figure out. She wants to see if you'll become jealous, fuck that!

Let her wonder.

Every time she leaves you she should be wondering if she will ever see you again. She should be wondering how much you like her. She should be wondering if you’re seeing other girls.

The more time she sits around wondering what you’re doing… the more she begins to convince herself she wants YOU!

It can be risky, but fuck it she played the 1st card!

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