so i go to this small hole in the wall bar near my house about once a week. It's an immigrant bar. Most of the patrons can't speak english too well. It's ok for me though cuse i speak their langauge decently well and i am of the same ethnicity.

I'm 22 and all the other patrons there are 30 or older. The bartender though is very young and close to my age. I think see is somewhat interested in me. we talk a little. she always says she's bored and she talks about herself. Its hard to keep a convo going with her sometimes because i'm not great with her language.


can i just shoot and see if she'll go out with me? Or would i ruin it by asking her out to early?
Any tips on gaming a bartender would help as well.

I talk to random dudes when I get bored. I guess that means they think I'm gay.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

When you're a bartender in the industry, your job is to get the customers to like you. When you like a bartender, you pay her more. Remember: If she's hot, she has guys hitting on her all the time, when you are and AREN'T there.

You could be playing YOU, son. Strippers do this at a more extreme degree.

Make your move and find out if she likes you. The worst she can do is say "no", will that honestly hurt? If she say yes, win.

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"Cleaning, baking, hot love-making. That's what girls are for."
-Michael Starr

Dawg! Dats weak game right there. She aint nothin but another mark. Approach as such. If your game is tight she'll be down like any other woman. This is comin from a man who closed more than a few strippers and bartenders in his time.