I NEED SOME ADVICE:
I been talking to this girl at the college I go to on and off. When I first start hanging out with her I almost had sex with her but I messed that situation up. When we were about to have sex she asked me do I want a relationship and I let that question get to me to the point that she could see the bad facial expressions on my face and then I said no. When I said that she took it and ran with it and I couldn't have sex with her and she said lets be friends. The thing about it was I realized too late that she is a girl that will throw shit test your way. So I was mad at mad at myself for not seeing that. I'm not going to keep rambling on but I know this girl still wants to have sex with me.

Recently I texted her and said lets hang out during finals week. She said that she had class at 12:00 and at 3-5, and then she was going to study with her friends at the library. So I didn't text her back after that. This morning she text me good morning with a smiley face......Do you think I should text her back or leave her alone?

1. Stop being afraid of commitment. Translate potentiality into actuality by forging ties with her. Intense and emotional ones.

2. Text this girl and suggest to meet.

3. Do her whenever the situation arises and you can keep seeing her.

4. Enjoy the relationship and the girl that comes with it.

What I don't understand is how you're "about to have sex" and she asks that question. And how you even considered answering it.

Anyway. Go ahead and text her back and meet up. If the subject comes up again, just avoid the questions and stay vague if you really don't want a relationship. I wouldn't lie and say I want a relationship to sleep with her, but that's just me.

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