This is ridiculous....

I've been out with a bunch of girls in the past couple months. I've laid a two. I always meet new women.

But my thoughts always go back to this girl I've written about several times.

WTF?!

She's like a disease in my brain....not even that hot. Physically, even possesses some qualities I usually don't care for.

Yet im way into her.

She knows how I feel. She considers me her "best friend", yay

We text almost everyday and night, talk on the phone, go out....basically everything but fuck.

Im not sure where to go with this anymore, so i've been ignoring her all day until I get a plan.

She texted me twice. I ignored. She texted me an hour later with a "phony mass text", I didn't respond.

She texted me an inside joke, I did not respond.

She's at work now, so she probably won't hit me up again until late.

The only time I ever did anything similiar to this was a couple weeks ago, when I was asleep for 20 hours and after awhile of not responding there were texts and messages about how worried she was about me.

(definitley not a good sign, as it shows how available I always am to her)

I DO like having this girl as a close friend. i have fun with her, ect. But I also want to be with her....

where do I go with this freeze out? How do I re-group with a different angle. Im kinda lost on this one.

Well Bro it's never going to happen, if you just sit there every day being her emotional tampon and errand boy!

You have to get sexual! But now that she sees you in that LJBFs aura, it's going to be tough!

Get her buzzed and happy! Approach it in a laid back SPAM. When approaching the option of having sex with your best friend, try start casually in a public SPAM. While at a bar or party where everyone is drinking and having a good time, it is easy to become more flirty and play off a mutual attraction you might have for one another, as a result of going this route, the transition into sex will be easier and less complicated for the friendship. Start with sexual innuendo, kino, even "jokingly" say "I'm going to fuck you tonight". Then lead to that end. Yo'll likely meet some resistance, back off like no big deal, start over, but go a little further.

If she questions it, tell her It's her fault for being so fucking sexy. That you won't be able to continue the relationship if she doesn't feel the same way. Then walk away from her, AND MEAN IT! You position on this is set in stone, and cannot be changed.

Remember two things.

1. NO MEANS NO! Your not a rapist!
2. BE PREPARED TO END IT If you really mean to do this, you have to stick to your guns. There is no going back to "The way it was." That's okay though, it sucks ass in the LJBFs bubble.

I gotta tell you it's way easier just to forget this one for a while, and go fuck three more just like. or better than her!

Either way it's time to Man-up!

_________________
They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Theres always tons of kino from both of us. She's admitted to being attracted and we have kissed before, but she stopped me siting the bf angle.

She's been texting me all day today....even re-texting shit she sent yesterday

Then escalate her in private and fuck her.

If she stops you, jump back a few, then GO AGAIN!

_________________
They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

So home girl was all curious where I was yesterday, what I been up to, so I told her I had a new gf.

She actually started qualifying herself almost immiediatly, and asked me to keep her as a friend (kinda weird).

We spoke about other shit, all together about an hour....

That was a few hours ago.

Taking this whole thing even furthur, I texted her a couple hours ago, asking if she wanted to meet up, meet the new girl

She didn't respond, which is unusual.

Then things got a little strange. Her roomate, who is a good friend of mine, called me. As good of friends as we are, he's never called me before. He immiediatly started asking me questions about this new gf. I could hear her in the background and she was obviously standing right there.

Roomate asked to meet me for a drink and bring the new girl.