As the title suggests, anyone been on the receiving end of this comment? Went to lunch with this chick I'm chasing, she starts getting dramatic and crying after I asked some pretty penetrating questions. I calm her down, and afterwards she says "you're a really good guy" (emphatically).

I've never gotten the "you're a nice guy" line before, but this is a first. So anyone want to fill me in if there's a distinction or they're all the same and I'm equally fucked?

What the hell did you ask her?

What did you ask her?

Also yeah a girl you're chasing saying "You're a nice guy" is a bad thing unless the girl herself is into "nice guys" which is unfortunately very unlikely

What you want is to be nice to her friends/girls she knows...overly nice if anything but a dickhead to her. I personally hate doing this as I am a nice guy, I enjoy reactions from people that I'm nice too and enjoy cooking/doing shit like that that makes people cheer up. However I learnt a long time ago that.

Nice guy that cooks/provides for a girl without asking for sex = The girl WILL 99.9% TAKE THE FUCKING PISS. (Obviously circumstances completely change when the girl acknowledges that she is your girlfriend. Cooking for the girlfriend/doing nice shit has always ended for me with sex that involves awesome lingerie and shit. I surprised an ex once with home made lasagna + extras, she disappeared off home and came back wearing only a massive coat and the best lingerie underneath <keep that in mind for your next girlfriend...aka you don't need to game them.)

Dickhead to her/nice to everyone else = She gets confused and wonders why your a dickhead to just her. blahdeblah, she thinks about you and attempts to get into your good books anyway she can aka sex. After sex you treat her like a princess.

My experience is that it's always the opposite of what they say. Most women I sleep with think I'm a jerk, or mean,and they often verbally express that. So I assume that if she says you are really nice, then she has no intention of sleeping with you. That's just how it works with women.

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She talked about a sports injury she recently had and how it's held her back in her everyday activities, and then I asked "That bad? Is it really out of your control?"....then came the waterworks...