Hi guys,

at first I am from Austria and my English is not very good, sorry. Please I need your advise, I tell you my story in short. I m 21 years old and I have slept only with one girl. I am now traveling around the world, at the moment I am in San Francisco. In Hawaii I met a hot German girl, we spend 3 days together than I had to fly to Los Angeles. She actually works in San Jose and she offered me to stay by her when I want to go to San Francisco. That s what I m doing now, but I have to sleep on her couch. The problem is I m in the friend Zone, in Hawaii it was a bit differed , but now I think she likes me but she is not attracted to me. I arrived last Friday in the evening, we spent the weekend together, we went to Alcatraz, hired bikes and drove around,... But for her I m just a friend, I want to change that, I want to have sex with her. What can I do? I tried a few times to sleep in her bed, but without success, I told her for example the couch is so uncomfortable, my cross hurt. How can I become attracted to her, I hope it is not to late. What can I say or do that she let me sleep in her bed? She is pretty smart and one year older than me and very far for her age I suppose, I think she is seeing me more than a boy instead of a men. She has to work Monday to Friday and at the weekend we are planning of rent a car and see the Yosemite National Park if the weather is good. So please guys help me, give me advise, I want to get laid, I would really appreciate your advise, it would be great to help me as soon as possible. By the way I am currently reading the game by Neil Strauss, so I just got attentive to the Pick up scene, it is great!

see ya

The hard part is already over. She's giving you an opportunity to seduce her. Have you tried anything? Im guessing not.

She's not gonna just invite you into her bed or lead you to the golden palace. You're a man, its your job to get there.

This is a very easy/basic situation. Have fun, flirt, escalate. That easy.