Hey Guys...


I seem to always get really attached to the girls im dating.

Any tips on how to not get so attached cause I want to be able to date a lot of girls and sleep around really without getting oneitis every time lol

This has to do with what you want. Take a seat and ask yourself the question "What do I really want?"

Do you really want to sleep around with a lot of chicks? A lot of guys do at this point in time. Do you at this point in time? Guys get oneitis because either they are desperate or they just want a relationship. Be honest with yourself, if you want to sleep around a lot, then great. If you want a relationship, then great.

What you really want comes from the inside, and usually your emotions guide you in what you really want. Don't ignore them all the time. Just make sure you're not desperate for girls.

It's OK to get attached, as long as she feels the same way. Find a girl that likes you as much as you like her and you're probably golden (so long as she meets your standards). That might mean fucking and going through a long list of chicks til you find one you're compatible with, or it could be the next one you meet. Only you will know.

If you don't want to get attached to female, don't invest too much in her.. Truth is the people will fail you always! Whether it is girls or your buddy friends.. Think about it this way.. The more you invest, the higher the outcome may be.. Or the bigger the loss can be too.. Oh and tr@veler's point about what you want is essential.. You have to know what you want first before taking a decision whether to invest or not..

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