Here's the story. This girl randomly added me on Facebook around the end of October. I sent her some crazy but funny pickup lines and got her number. We immediately hit it off through text messages. She was feeling me and I was feeling her. I got her to open up fairly quickly. And she told me how she felt this “strong connection” with me. I wont lie, I felt this way too. It was weird, it was like we knew eachother for years the way we talked, etc.

Fast forward a couple weeks and she is calling me “babe” and baby and saying things like “I hate it when I dont hear from you”. Sending me those Facebook pictures that say “I may not be the prettiest girl, but have a big heart”.

She works a lot and so do I. It was hard to setup a date. I get to her house: meet her parents, give her a hug, and open the door for her. We went to a small restaurant. The conversation went smooth. She wasnt as interested in my life as I would have liked, but she is a girl so I expected it. We go to the store and shes literally all over me. Putting her head on my shoulders, flirting etc. I flirt back a little bit, but not too hard. I continue to open car doors for her, and act like a gentlemen and she's oozing all over it. She's like “noones ever been this nice to me”. Needless to say SHE FELL PRETTY HARD REALLY FAST. End of the night I get a kiss and she goes home.

Fast forward a few weeks from the first date. She asks me to go to her Thanksgiving dinner and birthday dinner. I dont have much family so of course I accept it. Thanksgiving day comes and she tells me her sister has gotten ill. I wasnt too happy so I'm like “wow really”. I didnt make too big of a deal out of it, but I really wanted to go. And then her birthday dinner was two days after. I didnt end up going to that either. I dont even remember what happened to that.

I dont make contact for a few days. Then during the week I ask her “hey wanna go to this electronic dance music show” downtown? She says “ I have something I need to tell you”. Apparently she has been doing Heroin for 3 months. And she started going to rehab recently. I make NO BIG DEAL about this at all. We never even talked about it talked about it. I believe people can change.

Basically she seems to have gone MIA. She texts me sometimes and asks what I'm doing, etc. I tried setting up more dates, but she will just say “I would if I could” “I have rehab” “I have work”. But we could have done something if she made an attempt but no dice.

This girl doesnt really have dudes all up on her Facebook. Mainly her family likes her Facebook status. Dont think she gets a lot a lot of male attention but I dont know.

Should I just disregard her? I dont want to act desperate, because it seems like she might have lost interest out of nowhere. Maybe I'll just wait for her to initiate contact from now on.

Man, just read your post, pretty sad story but seems like you are pretty new in this.
A good question to ask yourself is What do you want out of pickup?
If you dont know right the way, maybe you should just LJBF her and start to approach new girls and meet new people. Your text sound alot like oneist to me.
If you have any question pm me

cheers mate

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