so i met this girl at the club a few months she wouldnt let me touch her,but kissing she did do. we got each other numbers and have been txting and hung out a few times.. in txting she usually bring the chats back onto herself, if we start talk more towards me she brings it back to herself most of the time and/or brushes me off sometime (rarely) she plays along. when we first met i told her i didnt want a relationship and she said she was cool with it.. we have hung out a couple of times. she invited me in a beat around the bush kinda way to go to the club last week in txting and basicly in the same breathe asked if i would mind if another guy friend of hers (i didnt know him) could go with us.. after the night ended she had lost the place we where to be crashing at.. it seems as though she waited last minute to ask said person... so later she txted me saying sorry it didnt work out for us, im not crashing at the friends house im driving home (she lives 1 1/2hrs away).. then next day she drove back to hang out with me and she barely touching me.. a few days later she told me that she want to have me... saying that i have an awesome personalty and that the others dont interest her sexually... she doesnt remember past chats and when i call her on it seems as thought its on the fly excuses.. so am i getting played for attention or is she makeing me work too hard for a fwb? advice would be helpful

played? sounds to me like you're getting gamed.

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Just my opinion looking in.. Sounds like maybe you are making yourself too available and not leading her on as much as you should. Remember the cat string theory?

most of the chats are though txting should i txt back? she usually txts me alot... freeze her pull back on talking her? and if so show i limit how much i respond?

Be irregular man. If you have ever read David DeAngelo, He puts a big focus in doing things on your terms. If she asks for it, tell her no and give it to her on your terms. Never give in, even if its sex. Do it on your terms, this attracts her in alot of different ways and seperates you from all the other AFC's

So, if shes texting you. Dont text back right away, instead wait for an hour or two. Fuck maybe a day or two, thats up to you, but it eliminates the illusion of being needy/clingly. Hope this helps.


Shreddr