So been having sex with this girl (She will be called humpgirl from now on) a bit recently but I've had a weird week because of her. About middle of last week she came to a party I was at, ended up getting into a fight with one of the girls that thinks I'm really nice (she's a sweet girl and I have no ambitions to sleep with her so I am genuinely nice to her) so anyway their yelling at each other, so I kick the girl calling me nice out (with friends) because she was way too smashed.

So me and humpgirl go back to mine and start humping. She cums three times, then collapses on a heap on my bed and suggests we have a shower. In the shower she starts hugging me and won't let go and keeps saying "sorry" because I didn't finish.

So the next day she leaves, we text for the week, keeping the attraction there blahdeblah. Then last night this weird shit happened.

Her: How do you know so many people? My housemates suckkkkkk. x
Me: I use my sexy voice on most of them, you'll get to hear it one day.
Her: I'll be your sexy lil girl x
Me: mmmm that sounds so good!
Her: Thought you would like it. x
Me:
Her: Actually just decided I don't need you anymore LOL
Me: sticky fingers, enjoy.
Her: Oh I shall x

From reading that many of you would say I need to get more sexual with her over texts. Please note that when I do get more sexual she seems to pull away. Even if I include the words gorgeous, sexy or beautiful in a text she will shy away. I save those words for when she's in my bed with this girl.

Anyway...is this a "what the fuck" situation.

It's just noise... She's obviously deeply infatuated with you. What she said doesn't mean anything. Actions always speak louder than words. Ignore her nonsense.

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You can also humour her in return and tell her you don't need her either because you have Jill. Send along this picture:
http://static.fjcdn.com/pictures/Jill_998c94_359556.jpg

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This girl's clearly feeling and she knows it. Think about her texts:

(her sitting there, really wanting to text you, nothing comes to mind)

Her: How do you know so many people? My housemates suckkkkkk. x
Me: I use my sexy voice on most of them, you'll get to hear it one day.

(*I'm fucking this guy, and clearly he's just joking. I don't know what to say, because he just made a pretty witty comment. I really like this dude and sex with him, and I feel comfortable texting him slutty shit, so good point to do that*)
Her: I'll be your sexy lil girl x
Me: mmmm that sounds so good!

(*he threw the mmmm's, so good, AND an exclamation point. Are we talking dirty to each other? But I just initiated something dirty to him, and he just took it. I can't make another dirty comment, that would be pushing it. But then I still want to keep this conversation going, so I'll text something neutral*)
Her: Thought you would like it. x
Me:

(*Word? I am making an effort and this guy sends me a winky face? I'm starting to feel stupid now. I wanna keep this going, but I don't know what to say. If I say something in the same flow of things that I have been saying, it will look boring. Gosh, I'm right. He's reducing the content of his texts because he is getting bored. But I still want to keep talking. I'll "reject" him to spice it up. But what is he takes it seriously and doesn't text me back?!?!? Oh! I know! I'll add an lol. No! I'll add an lol and makes an extra effort to capitalize it! Word!*)
Her: Actually just decided I don't need you anymore LOL
Me: sticky fingers, enjoy.
Her: Oh I shall x


So you're fine.

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ahahaha I love your text analysis. Right, as a learning curve what would be recommended? From my perspective the last couple of texts demonstrates bad behaviour on her part so shall I let her wallow in her mess so her "what if he took it serious" builds up and she panic texts or text her another random opener or whatever. I'm a textbook overthinker so if I am let me know.

Also for future reference I'm pretty sure she's insecure. She's pretty hot but used to be "chubby" (her words) and hates me looking at her ass when she's naked because she thinks it "looks fucking horrible" (it doesn't) normally I wouldn't play on girls insecurities but she does like to play games.

I'm also assuming its always a good thing that a girl couldn't make you cum especially if she thinks she's the bee's knees.