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| Dave Blaze | PostPosted: Mon Dec 03, 2012 11:49 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Thu Nov 01, 2012 12:04 am Posts: 53 Location: Amsterdam | | My only trouble is leading on for Day 2's. I just noticed about leaving on a high note is the best which I will start doing, but for now I'm just practicing. I have been building a connection, showing interest, DHV, not being needy actually walking away and coming back later and all that.
I have a couple real serious questions that could help me out substantially.
Frame: This is right after I get the number and text her the next day around 3....
What should I expect?
Now if a girl is not giving much to work during text game what should I do?
Do you chase and for how long?
How does freezing work out and for how long?
How long after getting number should you ask to chill and how? (Just keep mentioning places and taking charge?)
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| Matrixxx | PostPosted: Tue Dec 04, 2012 1:16 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Dec 03, 2012 7:46 am Posts: 18 | | you shouldn't expect anythng. Dont limit yourself to your own expectations. You should call her, if she doesnt pick up dont leave a message. Dont follow up with a text message. When you call her dont waste too much time talking about useless things. Call her while your out getting gas or something. Say you want to go for coffee and you can meet her somewhere (that same day). If she says shes busy, and doesnt give you another date, then leave it be. Call her again in a few days and do the same thing. If shes still "busy" then your wasting your time. Dont call her anymore, until she calls you.
Dont ask her to "chill" . Say you WANT to see her and go for a coffee, or your going to the mall and she can come with you to pick something up. get a coffee at the mall if you want.
As for chasing, everyone is different. I never chase anyone, chasing means that shes better than you. Showing your interest and chasing are two different things. Show your interest like a real men and leave it to her. If she comes, then you know your in. If she doesnt you just saved a lot of time and hassles.
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| Dave Blaze | PostPosted: Tue Dec 04, 2012 4:16 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Thu Nov 01, 2012 12:04 am Posts: 53 Location: Amsterdam | | I was actually thinking of going the coffee routine route. I totally agree I don't want to be coming off as needy in anyway. To me that actually lowers my self-esteem so I don't let it get to that point. But when you freeze out how long should you wait like 3-4 days after the text you sent?
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| Fly_Swatter | PostPosted: Tue Dec 04, 2012 4:43 am | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Wed Nov 21, 2012 8:29 pm Posts: 708 Location: Antarctica | | You mean she didn't even reply to your last text? What was the last text you sent?
Depending on the conversation, I usually don't even bother ever texting back. _________________ Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.
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