So I met this cute girl in a casual clubby kind of place. We danced a bit, talked briefly and she looked pretty interested. She was lamenting how quite a few guys around these parks are gay. After which I told her "Let me show you how not gay I am" and started nibbling on the neck a bit.

After that we chatted a bit outside the club, exchanged numbers. That was on saturday. On sunday, I asked her out if she wanted to catch dinner. She said she was still recovering from last night. But she took the trouble to message again and tell me that we should definitely meet soon. I said ok and she said "deal". Where do I go from here? It always been easy for me to get numbers from virtually any girl, but I must have the worst record ever for flaky numbers. I need advice on what to do next.

Don't do dinner... Shit's gay. Instead take her for a walk, coffee, or drinks at a bar or pub where you can easily escalate without drawing stares. I mean she already told you she's down for seeing you again... Propose a Friday or Saturday evening when you know the both of you aren't working or have school the next day.

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Ok. Sounds good. Ill text her for a walk and coffee. What should I do in the meantime? In my experience, its usually out of sight, out of mind for girls. So I always try to fix something up within 2 days or so max. Should I continue texting or call her (Maybe that would freak her out)?

Yes, 2 days max is a good policy if your text or phone game is bad. But if you feel comfortable texting her or talking to her on the phone without a problem, you can wait a bit longer. If you're only good in person, then yes make it earlier because she may lose interest.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.