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| Rough Operator | PostPosted: Mon Dec 03, 2012 12:06 am | |
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Location: England | | A girl I am growing rather fond of said this to me today.
Now, she says she cares about me and whatnot and we have had amazing sex. But I can't help but think the unsaid clause of "I don't know what I want" is "But I do know its not with you."
I am debating cutting her off, but I would welcome thoughts.
She also has said she doesn't want to rush into things as she is recently out of a relationship, but I can't bring myself to really believe what she says.
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| sketchspace | PostPosted: Mon Dec 03, 2012 12:19 am | |
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Website: http://www.femaledatinghelp.com | | I think you're reading too much into this, and this unsaid clause is your fear of her not wanting to be with you.
I recommend taking what she says at face value, giving her her space, and continuing to live your life. And if down the line she changes her mind and you're still open to doing whatever with her, then go for it.
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| Fly_Swatter | PostPosted: Mon Dec 03, 2012 12:36 am | |
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Location: Antarctica | | Well she was out of a LTR so you could have been a rebound...
Distance yourself a bit and don't bother talking to her about relationships, your feelings, or anything related.
Whenever a girl seems unsure about wanting a relationship with me, I just tell her "If you can't see yourself with me, you need to tell me now and I will walk." This usually shuts them up as they see I'm not needy and can move on with the snap of my fingers.
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| Datguy | PostPosted: Mon Dec 03, 2012 12:45 am | |
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Posts: 107 | | Wanting "time and space" is more or less a warning that they are insecure and have no clue of what they want. I say just walk away and don't expect anything, that kind of woman is just going to waste your time.
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