Fuck. There's this girl I've been into. I saw her today in the library. She told me about a month back that she was into someone else. We had a date before, made out, got half naked..no sex. Anyways, the convo went alright, I was working through all the fucking adrenaline in my veins; trying to find my comfort around her. She mentioned she didn't like her apple she was eating as we talked. After I left, I came by as I was leaving and gave her my apple, and at that point there was some other guy sitting there and I told him the apple was for the lady. I think I heard them laugh as I walked away. It seemed like a good idea, but now I feel like a fucking sucker because now I feel like I don't know shit about women again. How the hell am I supposed to detach myself on the situation and not hit on her, but till go kino and whatnot; basically still hit on her? I'm talkin girls in general..

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Most things we're afraid of are simply challenges, so smile because you'll become stronger from it.

stay focused on yourself. your starting to care to much about the situation. try and be with other girls in front of her. Pretend you don't really care for her that much. If the situation doesn't change you need to move on.

Don't interact with her for a little while. Then resurface and try again if you want. She her your not always around.

If you gave your girlfriend an apple, that'd be cool. But she isn't. She's a broad. And as such, she should be treated like one. If your bro complained about a crappy tasting apple, would it even cross your mind to give him yours? Probably not.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

As she complained about her apple, you should've taken a big loud bite out of yours right in front of her. Then as you are slurping and chomping on a mouthful of apple with little chunks falling out the sides of your mouth, as her "So, what are you doing later?"

That would actually work much better than "Here's my apple...pleeeaaazzzze like me..."

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn