So i met 2 guys and one girl tonight! Gamed her perfectly and she was hugging me all night! We had a deep conversation about her childhood, perfect guy and other stuff.. The IOIs were there but couldn't escalate much apart from hugging her few times when she said clever thing as the other 2 guys were there.. Then we got back to my place to smoke nargili.. One guy left and my wingman was still there.. Everytime my wingman starts talking about his ex girlfriend girls get really interested and start showing him IOIs and not looking at me anymore.. This happened 3 times before and he always gets the girl.. She was then not looking at me and concentrating on what he has to say.. Tried to chance the conversation few times but it always lead to the same topic about his ex gf.. I'm not trying to cockblock him from getting the chicks but it's starting to annoy me that he always gets them by using that topic.. I told him not to talk about his ex gf anymore as it's a turnoff.. ( i know im game once he starts that conversation).. What should I do? I would def let him have her if he wants but he is stealing many chicks from me this way.. It's getting kind of annoying..They went together to bus station now.. It's 6 am and he will probably take her back home.. What should I do ? or react? How shall my mindset be towards this

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It sounds like your this dude's mark. You're making the bed, and he's sleeping in it.

Call him out or just jack his ex-gf story verbatim before he can use it.

If you call him out and he gives you static, find a new wing.

He is really a cool wingman and can't really let him go.. We spent most of the time together and we have been very successful with girls doing what we do.. He just texted me saying he is waiting for the next train( he dropped her off at home). He also added that " I could have hooked up with her but I didn't because of you man.. Thought you liked her so I didn't take a move as you were gaming her all night"..
So now I feel bad for thinking that he might have taken her away from my hands.. Apparently, I'm the selfish guy that doesn't want my friend to get laid.. He also added that he will leave her for me if I want her.. I said i would help him get her if he wants.. Now, I'm in this situation where both of us are like " You have her.. no you have her, you gamed her first, but she was giving IOIs to u.."
I think I will just step off and let him have her this time as I don't want to lose his friendship over a girl we just met .. but the fucken selfish genes are telling me to cockblock and get her for myself..What a dialama..

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You can let him go... don't convince yourself otherwise. A good wingman is hard to find, for sure... I've befriended many naturals and guys that have game, and if they get to always stepping on my toes I let them know what's up. If they keep doing it, I just don't go out with them anymore. Maybe he can't help being attractive or whatever, but it also sounds like he could be just using you for setting things up while he knocks em down. This "selfish" card sounds like bullshit, if he didn't want to game em he wouldn't be taking them home.

I find often it's better to learn to game solo and with AFCs, helps ya stand out.. but that's just me. Maybe you should do a little reading up on "Wingmen" material to help find a good one.

This.

It is easier to game by yourself since one doesn't have to worry about being shoved aside by a wingman who is a natural. The thing is these wingmen who are naturals at gaming usually can't help it, since in most cases they do not realize that they are cock-blocking you, even if you call them out. It's really difficult to assert yourself with these types of people, no matter how nice or helpful they try to be. Next time go out by yourself, preferably in an environment you're most comfortable in, and game there.

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It's much harder to game with AFCs.. I did it plenty of times and basically they don't know what the fuck they are doing.. Maybe I'll give it another approach with some of them and see how it goes.. My friend is def natural and attracts many girls to him by just being himself and talking about whatever.. To be honest, he sets the mood too when we go out.. So there is a contribution from both of us and not only from me.. What I think I'll do is confront him about the girl from yesterday and see what he has to say.. Basically tell him I was gaming her all night and you knew it.. He didn't step up until we got home too and then he attracted her and set me aside.. He should have helped me instead of doing that.. Next time we should give some clues to each other so that the other guy steps aside and don't cockblock the other

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In this world, you don't get what you deserve but what you fight for!

Dude, there is no fair play in love and war. You have to look after your own interest first.