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I'm naturally a shy person, so I found it hard to try and make myself talk to others more. A lot of times unless I was talking to close friends I'd feel nervous. But when I really pushed myself, I could put myself into a very outgoing mood that would let me talk to anyone or do anything. The problem is it sometimes comes off as overly aggressive or needy. So now that I can be more social, how do I relax more while doing it?
Don't worry about seeming overly aggressive or needy. I've seen alpha males who are successful with women and they are way over the top with being aggressive (physically and sexually) and chasing the women and telegraphing all kinds of interest. But what makes them alpha is they don't care. They don't care that all the AFCs are staring at them thinking they are douchebags. They don't care that uptight women are put off by them. They just do what they do because they know it will allow them to get the girls they want.
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